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2009-11-16T21:57:00.009-05:00

What Women Want in Bed

2009-11-13T09:43:00.004-05:00

Women everywhere thank you for taking the initial step in improving your sex life by wanting to learn what women want in bed. It seems that too many men just “go at it” without understanding what is needed to make sex as pleasurable as possible for their lover. Sadly, not only does their lover lose out, but so does the guy. And eventually a gal who loses out soon loses interest. Not only may a lack of such knowledge cause strife, hurt feelings, anger or embarrassment, but it can eventually destroy even the healthiest of relationships.

There’s another important benefit to having a full understanding of what will satisfy a woman, because pleasing a woman and bringing her to a climax can be a very heady, rewarding experience for a man. After all, the ability to make a woman desire you and even ask for sex is what most men dream about, right?

Reading through this chapter and a couple of other key parts of this e-book course will help you bring that dream to life. You will even learn how to give her the ultimate climax, better know as the TriGasm!

In short, you can become the ideal lover that every woman wants. By learning and applying the techniques in this section you’ll become one of the few men that women dream about encountering in their next sexual coupling. No longer will they dread such an experience or have a need to think up excuses such as the “not tonight” litany that men despise hearing. If that weren’t enough, there are a lot of techniques that not only please a woman (and thereby keep her both “coming” and also later “coming back for more”), but which also permits a man to gain even greater satisfaction. Knowing these will pay off in added joys and pleasure each and every time you hit the sack with your significant other.

By knowing what women truly want in bed, your next sexual experience can be filled with excitement and satisfaction. Learning how to please your partner is then a win-win situation for a man as it will build your confidence and improve your own skills. So read carefully and prepare to be one of those guys who are always “in demand” because they understand just what a woman wants in a man and moreparticularly, in bed.

What’s in it for you?

It’s no secret that women are known for being sensitive and more in touch with their emotions than men. However, they still place much importance on intimacy, the physical characteristics of their significant others, as well as themselves, and sexual gratification.

There are many important qualities that women look for whether it be in bed or simply in a lover. Below are some of the most common qualities to read over and make note of how many you have and how many you can improve after reading through this e-book. Sex is an art that requires awareness and knowledge of a woman’s needs and desires. This course will help you to discover just what it takes to please a woman in every way possible and will give you the basic tools to acquire more information about women and what they want in bed. Listed are many things that a woman wants in a lover, some which coincide with what men also appreciate while others specifically target the needs of a female.

Men who communicate openly
Men who can provide undivided attention
Creative and inquiring men
Sexually, emotionally, and mentally intimate men
Men who care about their appearance from their clothing to their cologne
Men who can read a woman's desired communication style (i.e. verbal or visual)
Men who find pleasure in satisfying their woman
Confident and courageous men
Men who know the art of kissing and the techniques of foreplay
Men who know exactly where a woman's erogenous zones are located
Men with the ability to control their ejaculation to lengthen their love making
Men willing to provide a sensual massage without any agenda
Men who know how to give positive feedback as well as receive it
Men who enjoy giving women what they want in bed as much as what they want outside of it.

To begin to better understand what a woman needs or wants, it is best to understand the importance of intimacy and exactly what that entails. It is often confused that intimacy is a single aspect of a relationship such as only the physical part. People mistake intimacy in this way and so having sex automatically would mean two people were intimate. Although there is some truth behind the physical perspective, alone it doesn’t encompass all the beauty of intimacy as it can be emotionally and intellectually stimulating as well.

This is an excerpt from The Loveologist's Guide to What Women Want in Bed by Dr. Ava Cadell. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

Sizzling Sex Secret: The Ties That Bind

2009-11-13T09:37:00.003-05:00

For the moment, forget everything you know about bondage. Forget about all of those bad, sex movies that you may have seen in the past and forget that you don’t really like to be tied to anything – let alone anyone.

In order for this to work you need to forget that your sex life is getting boring and you need to remember that you’re still very much in control. For this little trick you’re going to need a scarf for restraining, a little courage and another scarf as a trusty blindfold. Although not really a magic trick, this sex secret could magically transform your love life.

Take your lover by the hand and gently guide him/her into the bedroom. Start with a little foreplay and undress each other as you make your way closer toward ecstasy. Then, gently lead your lover onto the bed and place the blindfold over your lover’s eyes.Talking softly and assuredly, take your lover’s wrists and tie them to the bed.

What you do next is completely up to you, but do remember that you are in complete control to do whatever your heart desires! I guarantee that you will be less inhibited making love to your lover while he/she is blindfolded. The fact that they can’t see you allows you to engage in some pretty racy sexcapades.

This is an excerpt from The Loveologist Guide to 52 Weeks of Sizzling Sex by Dr. Ava Cadell. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

"How the Economy can affect Love & Sex!" (Part 4) -- Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava - 7 pm PST at www.wetalksex.com

2009-11-12T19:00:00.001-05:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell and her special co-host Robert Mack. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world at 7 pm PST – www.wetalksex.com. The topic for conversation this week is "How the Economy can affect Love & Sex!" This show is not appropriate for under age listeners. Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Mark Curry, Actor & Comedienne (Star of Hanging with Mr Cooper)

TO ASK QUESTIONS LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com. Ask your question on air and you will WIN a free gift. Dr Ava is waiting for your call.

Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Mark Curry, Actor & Comedienne (Star of Hanging with Mr Cooper)

Mark G. Curry (born June 1, 1961) is an African-American actor and comedian. He is best known as the star of the ABC sitcom Hangin' with Mr. Cooper, and as one of the various hosts of the syndicated series It's Showtime at the Apollo. A class clown since his earliest years, Mark quickly learned that a wild sense of humor could take him places. While working at a drugstore after quitting college he honed and polished a comedy act (which he regularly practiced on customers). It was these customers, as well as his family and friends, who finally encouraged Mark to try his stand-up routine at area comedy clubs. With comedian Richard Pryor as his inspiration, Mark made his debut in Oakland and eventually became the city's most sought-after stand-up comic. His success there paved the way for comedy-club bookings all over the world

What Men Want in Bed: Sharing Fantasies

2009-11-12T10:53:00.001-05:00

Ladies, if you want your lover to help you reach satisfaction with a TriGasm, you need to cultivate his needs so he’ll be ready to enthusiastically satisfy yours.

Talking is an important way for couples to build relationships. And, let’s face it, in today’s world men too often get bored in relationships and decide to move on to other action. If you want to keep your man, then you need to give him a very good reason to stay around. And you do that by letting him know that he’s making a difference in your life, communicating your needs and fantasies, and encouraging him to tell you his. Then youboth do your best to meet those needs, when doing so is comfortable for you both (and that last “when” clause is an important one, never launch into something that you’re not comfortable with as it will likely end in disaster).

Unfortunately many men have not learned to be at ease in expressing themselves or making their needs verbal. So you may have to coax this out of him. Whatever you do, don't try to second-guess his needs or attempt to learn everything from his body-language cues; ask your partner if his nod means “yes” or “no.” Find out if he would like, or dislike, something before springing it on him. And, if he "clams up,” give him a wide berth for a while until the time is right to talk (just don’t give up on trying).

Remember that when one of you needs to talk, one of you may need to listen. Be sure your conversations are two way, not all you or him talking at the other partner. Communication is ongoing foreplay that keeps you in everlasting love. Use it to keep your lover with you, and to keep you both pleased and happy with your sex lives. That said, it's important to always use positive reinforcement to get your lover to give you what you want.

Now, if you and your partner are indulging in erotic talk for the first time together, I suggest starting slowly. One of my favorite ways to share erotic talk is to start telling your lover a fantasy, then make him or her end the fantasy. For example, a gentleman may start by saying, "One day I was walking along a secluded area of the beach, when I happened to see a beautiful, naked woman lying alone in a cove area where no one could see her. I needed to get closer, so I walked oh-so-quietly towards her. Only when I was about ten feet away did I realize it was you, and that you were pleasuring yourself. In fact, you were so engrossed in what you
were doing that you had no idea that I was standing there. Suddenly, you opened your eyes and looked directly at me." Now your partner has to end the fantasy. Did she just continue masturbating, did she invite you to join her, or did she jump up and run screaming down the beach? (Perhaps a likely ending in real life, but not exactly an exciting fantasy)!

Or, you might begin like this: "My fantasy is to take a lovely picnic basket filled with fresh fruits, vegetables and an assortment of chocolates and sweets to a beautiful deserted beach somewhere in the tropics. As we lie next to each other basking in the sun, I roll on top of you and give you a long, deep passionate kiss. You take me in your arms and then…” Now it’s time for your partner to complete the fantasy and see where it takes you both.

Communication is the key ingredient for a consistently successful relationship, and the use of fantasy will spice up anyone’s love life. So I suggest that one person begins telling their partner their fantasy, and then the other person has to finish the fantasy. If both of you like it, why not make your fantasy come true? Erotic dialogue can not only spice up your repertoire but it can make fantasies come to life,as well as demonstrate what your guy may not be interested in doing. You can learn this safely with such conversations, with neither of you placing yourself at great emotional risk. It is only pretend, after all.

This is an excerpt from The Loveologist Guide to What Men Want In Bed by Dr. Ava Cadell. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

A Peek Into a Sex Therapist's Office: Exploring Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot

2009-11-12T10:31:00.004-05:00

CONFESSION: Female ejaculation was high on the list of phenomena Chet didn’t believe were possible and, since no woman he had ever made love to was capable of its demonstration, he was convinced that he wasn’t a good enough lover to bring it about.

CONSEQUENCE: Chet’s lack of knowledge was making him feel frustrated and inadequate as a lover. He needed to be educated about the G-spot and how to locate his partner’s urethral sponge.

STRATEGY: To teach Chet where a woman’s G-spot is located and to help him discover and stimulate that of his partner. Through videos and diagrams, he would be able to understand a subject that had been a great mystery to him.

SOLUTION: Chet and I sat down and talked about nothing but the G-spot.I told him that all women had a urethra, but not all women were sensitive inside their vaginal upper wall. When stimulated with a finger, vibrator or a man’s penis, the area would swell and provide an orgasmic response that felt deeper, stronger and longer than that of a clitoral orgasm and women reported that they ejaculated from their G-spot. I cautioned Chet that the G-spot was not always consistent as a source of pleasure as it was often difficult to locate. I also showed him that statistically, not all women ejaculated due to G-spot stimulation and those that did did not ejaculate every time. I gave him a video called, “The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Ecstasy” which features the G-spot orgasm and includes some sexual positions which elicit a G-spot orgasm. Most coital G-spot orgasms occur as a result of rear entry positions and this is documented on the tape. I gave Chet a G-Spot vibrator that would greatly assist his partner in achieving what he desired.

BENEFITS: Chet would not only be a wiser, but a more well-rounded lover. His self-esteem would not be needlessly affected and his frustration would cease as far as the stimulation of the G-spot was concerned.

This is an excerpt from Confessions to a Sexologist: Peeking into the Sexual Secrets of America by Dr. Ava Cadell, Ph.D., Ed.D. Visit Dr. Ava's bookstore at Loveology University

You may also be interested in this article: The G-Spot and Female Ejaculation

"How the Economy can affect Love & Sex!" (Part 3) -- Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava - 7 pm PST at www.wetalksex.com

2009-11-11T18:57:00.000-05:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell and her special co-host Tino Struckman. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world at 7 pm PST – www.wetalksex.com. The topic for conversation this week is "How the Economy can affect Love & Sex!" This show is not appropriate for under age listeners. Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Jason Miller- R&B Singer

Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Jason Miller- R&B Singer

http://www.myspace.com/thejasonmiller -- can hear his songs here -

With a voice that soothes the heart and a new groove to move your body, Jason Miller is cracking the R&B world wide open.Jason began performing as a thirst to entertain his friends. His obvious song writing skills and knack for creating melodies quickly turned into the one true passion that would lead him to the path of success in the music industry for the rest of his life. Drawing from influences such as Marvin Gaye and Michael Jackson, Jason now performs all around the world.

In the fall of 2004 Jason entered into a partnership with ShyDog Productions (ShyDog). ShyDog productions supported the creation of his new music that ultimately brought a Major Record Deal to the table. With superstar appearances by Akon, Snoop Dogg, 50 Cent, Detail, 40 Da Great, 2RQ, and others, this album promises to be at the top of the charts.What he’s about to bring to the table will soon change the R&B World.

Jason recently completed his single "SuperModel" with DJ Boi Jeanius from Chicago's KISS FM. This record is breaking all over the world.

Jason is currently working on establishing his non-profit organization that will be dedicated to terminally ill children. Jason is thankful for his blessings and wants to dedicate his extra time to bring hope to children throughout the world.

"How the Economy can affect Love & Sex!" (Part 2) -- Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava - 7 pm PST at www.wetalksex.com

2009-11-10T18:33:00.001-05:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell and her special co-host Dr. Hernando Chaves. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world at 7 pm PST – www.wetalksex.com. The topic for conversation this week is "How the Economy can affect Love & Sex!" This show is not appropriate for under age listeners. Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Luenell- Comedienne and Actress

Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Luenell- Comedienne and Actress

Luenell Campbell (born March 12, 1959), known professionally as Luenell, is an American comedienne and actress. She was born in Tollette, Arkansas and uses only her first name. She is the youngest of eight children. She was raised in Northern California.

In the early 1990s Luenell appeared regularly on Soul Beat TV on the Oakland, California cable station KSBT, along with prominent Bay Area African-American journalist Chauncey Bailey, an interview and talk show host on the program.^{http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Luenell - cite_note-Tribune2-1}

Luenell was one of the few actual actors in the 2006 hit mockumentary-styled comedy film Borat: Cultural Learnings of America for Make Benefit Glorious Nation of Kazakhstan. In it, Luenell plays a prostitute of the same name, a hooker with a heart of gold. She has also been seen on the BET comedy series, Comicview, and is featured on the new season of Wild 'N Out. Luenell was in the second episode of the Comedy Central comedic reality show, Reality Bites Back.

"How the Economy can affect Love & Sex!" -- Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava - 7 pm PST at www.wetalksex.com

2009-11-09T18:26:00.005-05:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell and her special co-host Brian McCarthy. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world at 7 pm PST – www.wetalksex.com. The topic for conversation this week is "How the Economy can affect Love & Sex!" This show is not appropriate for under age listeners. Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Aaron Abrams – Currently starring in Amelia with Hillary Swank and Richard Gere.

Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Aaron Abrams – Currently starring in Amelia with Hillary Swank and Richard Gere.

Aaron Abrams is a Canadian actor, born in Toronto, Ontario, who works in both film and television. Aaron co-wrote and played a starring role in the controversial film Young People Fucking, which was written with and directed by Martin Gero in 2007. He is nominated for a Canadian Comedy Award for writing the movie in 2009. Aaron has starred in such TV shows as Flash Point and Stargate: Atlantis and movies such as
Amelia and Resident Evil: Apocalypse.

Multiple Orgasms for Men

2009-11-06T06:00:00.002-05:00

Achieving multiple orgasms that awaken and expand consciousness is within the power of all men. Learn the benefits of a "full body" orgasm with proven ancient Tantric techniques. The benefits of multiple orgasms include increased circulation, enriched mental clarity, prolonged sexual pleasure, and the ability to separate orgasm from ejaculation.

Prolonging Your Orgasm With A Partner The P.C. muscle is the support muscle for the genitals in both men and women. There is a definite correlation between good tone in the P.C. muscle and orgasmic intensity and control. A quick way to identify the P.C. muscle is to urinate, then stop the flow of urine by squeezing your P.C. muscle, then urinate again. After a few repetitions, most people are able to tighten this muscle without the involvement of urination. This technique requires the control of your PC muscle. You also need to learn to enhance your ability to peak at various arousal levels.

1. This exercise begins with the man lying on his back. Ask your partner to begin a genital caress with hands and/or mouth. Do a series of low-level peaks – from level (1) to (6). Give your partner lots of feedback so she knows when to back off and when to intensify her caresses. Once you have completed these peaks, switch positions.

2. Your partner should now be lying on her back with her legs in the air, slightly bent. You want to be on your knees, with most of your weight being supported by your legs. Do a series of peaks while having intercourse with your partner, start with some slow, comfortable penetration. Taking plenty of time, peak up to level (5), then back off by squeezing your PC muscles. Next peak to level (6), and then back off. Peak to level (7), then back off. Next peak up to level (8), and then back off. Now peak up to level (9), then back off. Now try the same thing with a series of fast, vigorous thrusting. The moment you stop thrusting, your partner must stop moving too.

3. Finally, thrust almost all the way up to your point of no return at level (9.5). But this time, the moment you reach that point, both you and your partner should stop moving. Squeeze your PC muscle as hard as you can, (remember that the higher your arousal level, the harder you have to squeeze your PC muscle), take deep breaths, open your eyes, focus all your attention on your genitals, and try to feel the semen moving from your testicles, to the base of your penis. (Any extra motion right now could cause you to ejaculate before you want to). If you stopped thrusting in time, you will have experienced an orgasm without ejaculation. Congratulations!

4. Now back off and rest a little bit by starting some really slow, easy penetration to maintain your erection. Let your arousal level rise again, but this time don’t try to stop it. Pass level (8), (9), keep thrusting and go all the way. Let yourself have a full orgasm complete with ejaculation.

Once you master this technique, you can prolong your orgasm for as long as you like and you can control when you have an orgasm and when you ejaculate. This technique takes lots of practice and self control.

Read the rest of the article here: https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/MultipleOrgasmsforMen.aspxa_aid=sward at Loveology University where you'll find free articles, a bookstore, and a wealth of courses you can take all aimed at helping you have richer, more fulfilling sexual relationships.

Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell - Celebrity Sexpert

2009-11-05T17:18:00.000-05:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world - just visit www.wetalksex.com Monday - Thursday at 7 pm PST. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.

Experience the Ultimate Orgasm: Dr. Ava's Trigasm

2009-11-05T13:52:00.002-05:00

Through the ages people have been exploring their bodies, looking for new or different ways to get pleasure. Things once taboo have become completely acceptable like fellatio, now so common that, thanks to former President Clinton, will “go down” in the annals of history.

As you know, for most women it’s stimulation of the 8000 nerve fibers of the clitoris especially by a talented tongue that gives them the best and biggest orgasm. But then there are those who swear by the G-spot orgasm as being the ultimate orgasm. The illusive G-spot is definitely not a myth but a treasure, which, when explored, can result in a deeper, longer orgasm, and some women are even capable of ejaculating from it. People often find that which is taboo more sexually arousing, such as exploring that power-packed little bud of erogenous sensitivity located only inches from your vagina—the anus.

I have been teaching the combination of simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation for several years. Couples loved it. Women got some serious attention, learning how to climax internally and externally at the same time, and men felt like they were heroes. S o, here’s the revolution, the ultimate orgasm—TriGasm. A TriGasm is the result of arousing the 3 points of pleasure, the clitoris, G-spot, and anus simultaneously.

Read the rest of the article here -- https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/DrAvasTriGasm.aspx?a_aid=sward at Loveology University where you'll find free articles, a bookstore, and a wealth of courses you can take all aimed at helping you have richer, more fulfilling sexual relationships.

Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell - Celebrity Sexpert

2009-11-04T17:13:00.000-05:00

One Night Stands (Part 2) Are the Hot Topic with Dr Ava Cadell Tonight at 7 pm PST

2009-11-03T17:11:00.000-05:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world - just visit www.wetalksex.com. The topic for conversation this week is "One Night Stands" This show is not appropriate for under age listeners. Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is actor Malik Barnhardt.

TO ASK QUESTIONS LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is actor Malik Barnhardt who has been in such films as "Get Rich or Die Tryin,""Woman Thou Art Loosed," "8 Mile," "Pastor Jones," "Jada," and "A Day in the Life" and just wrapped Ice Cube's new film "Janky Promoters" and will later be co-starring in the soon to be released Benny Boom film "Next Day Air." Barnhardt, has had numerous guest starring roles in the television series "The Cell," "Law and Order," and "Arrest and Trial."

One Night Stands Are the Hot Topic with Dr Ava Cadell Tonight at 7 pm PST

2009-11-02T17:07:00.002-05:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world at 7 pm PST - just visit www.wetalksex.com. The topic for conversation this week is "One Night Stands" This show is not appropriate for under age listeners. Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Miyoko Fujimori.

TO ASK QUESTIONS LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Miyoko Fujimori.

Miyoko Fujimori is experienced with Striptease, pole dancing, and enhancing your love life. As a former Playboy TV talk show host and feature entertainer, she discovered a desire to help others enhance their intimate lives. She wrote a book called The Housewife's Guide to the Practical Striptease, which is a fun and entertaining manual for women of all shapes and sizes. She has toured the country lecturing, educating, and coaching women, men and couples on intimacy.

Open Relationships (Part 4) is the Hot Topic on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell

2009-10-29T14:22:00.001-04:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell and her Jackie Zeman. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world. The topic for conversation this week is "open relationships." This show is not appropriate for under age listeners. Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Robert Mack.

TO ASK QUESTIONS LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

SPECIAL GIVEAWAY - September 28th - October 29th - we have a special giveaway for Sex Drive radio listeners - Win a Trip for 2 to Jamaica's hottest all inclusive resort, Hedonism III. Listen Monday through 7 pm PST/ 10-11pm EST and visit www.wetalksex.com/hedonism.php for more details.

Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Robert Mack.

Robert Mack is a celebrity life coach, bestselling author, and one of the most coveted, sought-after guests and speakers on happiness and success on the planet today. He is also the host of his own radio show, "Happiness from the Inside Out," airing on Energy Talk Radio. Rob Mack is the author of the critically-acclaimed, celebrity-endorsed, bestselling book: "Happiness from the Inside Out: The Art and Science of Fulfillment..." which was featured by OPRAH in "O" Magazine.

Indulging Sexual Fantasies

2009-10-29T03:21:00.000-04:00

Talking erotically and touching yourself in front of your partner leads quite naturally to role playing. Fantasies are fun and if you can share them with the one you love,they can bring you even closer together, adding a dash of passion and zest to your lovemaking.

As Albert Einstein once said: “When I examine myself and my methods of thoughts, I come close to the conclusion that the gift of fantasy has meant more to me than my talent for absorbing positive knowledge.”

Master and slave: The “master” wears leather and the “slave” is dressed in lace. The slave does whatever the master orders. (Suggestion: a creative master will have a much more accommodating slave.)

Call girl: The man is a john, the woman a call girl, showing up at the man’s hotel room for a trick. (Or even more interesting, reverse the roles. The man is the high price gigolo, the woman a johnny.)

How about taking sexy boudoir photos of your lover? It’s best to use an instant camera for any explicit photos or they could end up on the bathroom wall at your local photo-processing lab. A great variation is the
photographer/centerfold theme.

Instead of throwing out old undies, you could let your lover tear them off you and adoringly ravage you as part of your lovemaking. (If the material is too thick, cut them in strategic places so that they tear off more easily.)

Striptease: The ultimate fantasy can be a striptease. So here’s what you need to know about taking it off. More entertaining than a magic act — although there’s definitely spellbinding material here — the centuries old striptease remains constant as a main attraction. In the privacy of your home, you can turn the routine of undressing into foreplay.

This is an excerpt from Dr. Ava Cadell's Stock Market Orgasm: Secrets to Expanding Your Sexual Portfolio. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

Dr. Ava writes: As it is with all long-term corporate partnerships, there are ups and downs in love relationships. But we’re lucky that today we can be more honest and communicative, and that we know so much more than we used to. If you think about it, most people relate to sex three ways; there’s the kind of sex our parents had, which was mainly for procreation, rather than pleasure. There’s the sex we have, which we believe is less inhibited and more fulfilling;
and there’s the sex we could and should be having which integrates the physical, mental and spiritual connection with our partner.

With the Stock Market Orgasm, the honeymoon can last forever and the stock market never needs to close.

2009-10-28T14:27:00.004-04:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell and her special co-host Dr Hernando. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world at www.wetalksex.com. The topic for conversation this week is "open relationships." This show is not appropriate for under age listeners. Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Michelle Hammond- Best Selling Author

TO ASK QUESTIONS LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

SPECIAL GIVEAWAY - September 28th - October 29th - we have a special giveaway for Sex Drive radio listeners - Win a Trip for 2 to Jamaica's hottest all inclusive resort, Hedonism III. Listen Monday through 7 pm PST/ 10-11pm EST and visit www.wetalksex.com/hedonism.php for more details.

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Tonight’s Celebrity Guest is Michelle Hammond- Best Selling Author - As a bestselling author, speaker, singer and television co-host, Michelle has authored over 30 books (selling over one million copies worldwide), including best-selling titles The Diva Principle, Sassy, Single and Satisfied, 101 Ways to Get and Keep His Attention, and Secrets of an Irresistible Woman. A gifted vocalist, Michelle has recorded two CD’s, It’s Amazing and Let’s Go In and co-hosted the Emmy Award-winning television talk show Aspiring Women. http://www.michellehammond.com/

Open Relationships (Part 2) is the Hot Topic on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell

2009-10-27T14:44:00.001-04:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell and her special co-host Dr Hernando. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world. The topic for conversation this week is "open relationships." Tonight's celebrity guest is Allison Dubois- Psychic Detective and Best Selling Author- The inspiration for the hit show Medium on CBS. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.

TO ASK QUESTIONS LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

Tonight’s Celebrity Guest - Allison Dubois - Psychic Detective and Best Selling Author- The inspiration for the hit show Medium on CBS. http://www.allisondubois.com/

Allison DuBois (born January 24, 1972) is an American author and self-proclaimed medium.

DuBois has claimed she uses her psychic abilities to help law enforcement agencies across the United States solve crimes, which formed the basis of the TV series Medium.

History of Masturbation

2009-10-27T03:12:00.000-04:00

Masturbation has had a bad rap. There are few examples of human sexuality that crystallize the hysteria and change in general sexual attitudes as the subject of masturbation. Perhaps because it was perceived as being the initial mechanism for sexual gratification, it drew outlandishly morbid attention, and produced centuries of unnecessary misery and anxiety in adults as well as children. Arguably, those who chose to study the subject of masturbation were the most troubled of all. In general, “lower classes” were not nearly as bothered by the act, and yet much harm was done by well-intentioned “upper class” families raising children using anti-masturbatory activities. Many of these outlandish activities have only very recently been officially challenged.

In 1760, S. A. Tissot, wrote the book “Onanism,” on the ills produced by masturbation. This book is considered the genesis of the anti-masturbatory hysteria as Onan was blamed for originating the “horrible sin” of self-abuse. One must not forget, however, that Tissot’s writings were only the culmination of centuries-old Church disapproval: even mutual masturbation required 20 to 40 days penance, 100 days for a second offense, and, if habitual, the violators were to be separated and do penance for one year.

One of the reasons that the English Victorians were so enthusiastically convinced that “willful” masturbation could cause acne, blindness, impotence, insanity and countless other pernicious side effects, was that their physicians told them so. These Tissotian doctrines had originally been delivered to them by one of Tissot’s disciples, the London urologist, William Acton (1813-1875). The Victorian parents spent untold energy to save their young children from blindness, insanity and damnation by preventing them from masturbating.

Countless researchers have documented in limitless data that the taboo against masturbation is the chief means to send the message to the next generation that sex is a loathsome disease, and therefore the fight against masturbation always will make the masturbation taboo the foundation of its society’s sexual doctrines and sex rearing practices.

Thank goodness we have progressed beyond the Dark Ages!

Masturbating in front of your lover — with or without erotic talk — is a wholesome and educational way to both turn yourself and your lover on. Take time with this. You can really let your lover know about your sexuality by touching and caressing yourself. If you don’t know what pleases you, then how can you communicate your desires to your partner? If you don’t love your body, then your partner will not be able to love your body either. So the benefits are better self-esteem, better communication and more sexual satisfaction.

Touch yourself while engaging in erotic talk.

This is an excerpt from Dr. Ava Cadell's Stock Market Orgasm: Secrets to Expanding Your Sexual Portfolio. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

Dr. Ava writes: As it is with all long-term corporate partnerships, there are ups and downs in love relationships. But we’re lucky that today we can be more honest and communicative, and that we know so much more than we used to. If you think about it, most people relate to sex three ways; there’s the kind of sex our parents had, which was mainly for procreation, rather than pleasure. There’s the sex we have, which we believe is less inhibited and more fulfilling;
and there’s the sex we could and should be having which integrates the physical, mental and spiritual connection with our partner.

With the Stock Market Orgasm, the honeymoon can last forever and the stock market never needs to close.

Open Relationships (Part 1) is the Hot Topic on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell

2009-10-26T10:48:00.002-04:00

Join us LIVE on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell. You can listen live through any computer – throughout the world. The topic for conversation this week is "open relationships." This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.

TO ASK QUESTIONS, LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

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Nicholas Rodriguez. He made his Broadway debut in "Tarzan" and has countless theater credits on his resume including "The Ten Commandments. He was named a “Grammy All-American Vocalist,” and shared the concert stage with Kenny Loggins and he will be appearing in the upcoming Sex and the City movie sequel.

But now Nicholas Rodriguez is best known for his fabulous role as Nick on ONE LIFE TO LIVE where his character is involved in a big gay marriage storyline.

Tonight We Finish The Discussion About Sensuality With Dr Ava at 7 pm PST

2009-10-22T20:13:00.000-04:00

We Talk Sex with Dr Ava Cadell. The topic for conversation this week is "sensuality." Tonight's celebrity guest is Nicholas Rodriguez – soap opera star. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.

TO ASK QUESTIONS, LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

SPECIAL GIVEAWAY - September 28th - October 29th - we have a special giveaway for Sex Drive radio listeners - Win a Trip for 2 to Jamaica's hottest all inclusive resort, Hedonism III. Listen Monday through Thursday LIVE 7-8pm PST/ 10-11pm EST and visit www.wetalksex.com/hedonism.php for more details.

Nicholas Rodriguez – soap opera star

Openly gay heartthrob Nicholas Rodriguez has been cast as Nick on ONE LIFE TO LIVE, who will be involved in the Kyle and Fish storyline.Rodriguez is a theater guy who spent more than a year in "Tarzan" on Broadway and appeared in "Cinderella," "Bajour" and many other shows over the past few years.

Get Ready for Sex and Romance

2009-10-22T02:55:00.000-04:00

The Stock Market Orgasm involves a slow, purposeful ebb and flow of lovemaking; a full exploration of sexual pleasure with your special partner. As I said, you should set aside at minimum, at least an hour to create this unforgettable experience. This may be quite a commitment for each of you, but it’s well worth the investment.

Let me make a few suggestions that will help set the proper mood for this glorious undertaking. Especially if your sex life, has not exactly been breathtaking. These tips are not simply to prepare for the Stock Market Orgasm; they are great guidelines for creating an exciting, fulfilling love life. Try at least one prior to your next sexual encounter.

In advance of “the event”

Let your partner know what a difference he or she is making in your life.
Write a love letter.
Make a wish list of 3 things that will heighten a sexual experience for you. Ask your partner to do the same, then exchange your lists and make each other’s wishes
come true.
Give lots of compliments, physical, mental and emotional.
Take a romantic walk and talk about 3 things you love most about each other.
Surprise your partner with a picnic in the park, on the beach, your backyard or in your home and feed each other your favorite foods.
Always kiss each other good-bye, give a big welcome home kiss and don’t forget one more before you go to sleep.
Kiss at unexpected times in unexpected places.
Bubble baths together are so romantic (if only men would try them).
Phone in the middle of the day “just because”.
Return your lover’s phone calls without delay, it shows you care.
Take your partner on a fantasy date once a week.
Record a message of love.
Send your lover a sentimental or erotic card, racy fax or sexy e-mail.
Think of something your partner did for you recently and show your appreciation by offering a sensual massage or other reward.

Make dates to spend time with your partner more sacred than business meetings, otherwise your business will thrive while your relationship falters.

This is an excerpt from Dr. Ava Cadell's Stock Market Orgasm: Secrets to Expanding Your Sexual Portfolio. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

Dr. Ava writes: As it is with all long-term corporate partnerships, there are ups and downs in love relationships. But we’re lucky that today we can be more honest and communicative, and that we know so much more than we used to. If you think about it, most people relate to sex three ways; there’s the kind of sex our parents had, which was mainly for procreation, rather than pleasure. There’s the sex we have, which we believe is less inhibited and more fulfilling;
and there’s the sex we could and should be having which integrates the physical, mental and spiritual connection with our partner.

With the Stock Market Orgasm, the honeymoon can last forever and the stock market never needs to close.

2009-10-21T19:08:00.000-04:00

We Talk Sex with Dr Ava Cadell. The topic for conversation this week is "sensuality." Tonight's celebrity guest is Johann Urb – actor – Eastwick TV show and 2012. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.

TO ASK QUESTIONS, LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

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Johann Urb – actor – Eastwick TV show

Johann isn’t new to series television. He had a recurring role in the FX series Dirt and five years ago, starred in The Mountain with Penn Badgley and Oliver Hudson on the old WB: “I had long hair and I was a bad guy. On [Eastwick] I’m the opposite and probably the only good guy.”

Eastwick isn’t the only new project Johann is excited about these days. He’s also one of the stars of the upcoming feature film 2012, a post-apocalyptic thriller also starring John Cusack, Woody Harrelson and Thandie Newton.

Date of Birth - 24 January 1977, Tallinn, Estonia

Spouse - Erin Axtell (16 August 2007 - present)

Vital Statistics --

Moved to Finland when he was 10 years old.

Moved to New York City when he was 17 years old.

Son of musician and actor Tarmo Urb. Toomas Urb is his uncle.

Has had a successful modeling career.

Good friends with film director and fellow Estonian Brad Jurjens.

Personal Quotes

I had to clean up my look [for the role on "The Mountain"]. Usually I have more of a beard. I'm a guy's guy. I don't like to tinker in front of a mirror in the morning. Shaving is not my thing.

I didn't come here (America) to be in the entertainment business. In fact, when people told me I should try acting, the rebel in me wanted nothing to do with it.

Sensuality is the Hot Topic Tonight on www.wetalksex.com at 7 pm PST with Dr Ava Cadell

2009-10-20T19:03:00.000-04:00

We Talk Sex with Dr Ava Cadell. The topic for conversation this week is "sensuality." Tonight's celebrity guest is Suzanne Whang –comedian – house hunter. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.

TO ASK QUESTIONS, LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

SPECIAL GIVEAWAY - September 28th - October 29th - we have a special giveaway for Sex Drive radio listeners - Win a Trip for 2 to Jamaica's hottest all inclusive resort, Hedonism III. Listen Monday through Thursday LIVE 7-8pm PST/ 10-11pm EST and visit www.wetalksex.com/hedonism.php for more details.

Suzanne Whang –comedian – house hunter- http://www.hgtv.com/suzanne-whang/bio/index.html

Suzanne Whang is an actor, television host, stand-up comedian, author, public speaker. She has been paying all of her bills in the entertainment industry for the past two decades. As an actor, Suzanne has appeared in numerous television series, including a hilarious recurring role as Polly the oversexed spa manager on Las Vegas, a memorable guest starring role as the young Mrs. Lee on Cold Case, and co-starring roles on Two & a Half Men, Boston Legal, Still Standing, Criminal Minds, Nip/Tuck, The Practice, Strong Medicine, Robbery Homicide Division, Norm, and NYPD Blue.

As a host, she has been the host of House Hunters, the #1 rated show on HGTV (Home & Garden Television Network) for almost ten years, and you can also see her as the host of the hit spinoff show, House Hunters International. Suzanne emcees many charity events, including a Lupus Gala Charity Benefit and a Breast Cancer Awareness Charity Benefit. And Suzanne does humorous and inspirational public speaking gigs across the country, at high schools, universities, conventions, and whatever else floats her boat.

She has just written her first book, entitled Suzanne Whang's Guide to Happy Home Buying, which is currently in bookstores across the country and also available on amazon.com! The book uses Suzanne's lighthearted style and irreverent sense of humor to deliver great information about the home buying process. She also incorporates the law of attraction from quantum physics into the process of manifesting the home of your dreams! Suzanne is pitching sitcom and feature film treatments, and her goal is nothing short of global domination.

Safer Sex Menu

2009-10-20T02:46:00.000-04:00

Of course the only kind of “safe sex” is abstinence!

What is Safer Sex?

Safer sex is a precaution taken by sexually active individuals in order to better protect themselves from Stds and HIV.

Some people are unclear about the risks linked to unprotected oral sex and sexual intercourse. Unprotected oral sex carries less risk for the transmission of Std’s than unprotected intercourse or anal sex does, but it’s still possible to contract herpes, genital warts, gonorrhea, syphilis, crabs lice, hepatitis, HIV or AIDS through oral sex.

Safer sex, such as using a condom, stops the passage of blood, semen and vaginal fluids to the penis and/or vagina. However, it is important that you use them correctly every time!

Safer sex can be fun and you won’t have to worry as much. The best advice is to use safer sex supplies until you and your lover are in a monogamous relationship ...

Safe Appetizers

Saucy phone-sex or sex talk
A luscious body massage
Naughty videos & audios
Scrumptious body licking
A spicy striptease
Savory kissing

Safe Main Course

Mouth watering mutual masturbation
Tasty cleavage fornication
Juicy oral delights with a condom or rubber dam
Steamy sex with vibrators and other adult toys (Not shared)
Delicious penetration with an FDA approved condom

Safe Dessert

Sugary caresses
Syrupy love bites served gently
Sweet body pressing
Warm blows of breath
Creamy cuddles

Read the rest of this article here: Safer Sex Menu (https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/SafeSex.aspx?a_aid=sward") at The Loveology University Website where you'll find free articles, a bookstore, and a wealth of courses you can take all aimed at helping you have richer, more fulfilling sexual relationships.

Tonight - Start the Conversation About Sensuality With Dr Ava Cadell on www.wetalksex.com at 7 pm PST

2009-10-19T19:46:00.001-04:00

We Talk Sex with Dr Ava Cadell. The topic for conversation this week is "sensuality." Tonight's celebrity guest is Peggy McCay- Soap Opera Actress on Days of Our Lives. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.

TO ASK QUESTIONS, LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

Peggy McCoy – Soap Opera Actress on Days of Our Lives

Emmy and OBIE Award-winning actress Peggy McCay is best known as the fiery, amber-eyed 'Caroline Brady' on NBC-TV's number one daytime drama "Days of Our Lives." This combined with her primetime television performances has brought her recognition from the public as well as her peers. McCay has five Emmy nominations to the credit and holds the unique honor of being the only actor to receive two Emmy nominations in the same year (1987): in daytime, she was nominated for Lead Actress for her work on "Days of Our Lives" and in primetime for Best Guest Actress for her work on "Cagney and Lacey."

Peggy is extremely devoted to animal rights issues and contributes a great deal of her time and energy to PETA, Last Chance for Animals, Actors and Others for Animals, L.A.S.P.C.A., and many others. When she is not caring for a lovable furry creature, Peggy is traveling the country, visiting college campuses, teaching intensive drama workshops and holding fundraisers for college drama/theater departments.

One More Night to Discuss Intimacy with Dr Ava Cadell - Celebrity Sexpert

2009-10-15T16:34:00.005-04:00

We Talk Sex with Dr Ava Cadell. The topic for conversation this week is "intimacy." Tonight's celebrity guest is Jason Miller – Singer. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.

TO ASK QUESTIONS, LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com. Listen live at www.wetalksex.com

SPECIAL GIVEAWAY - September 28th - October 29th - we have a special giveaway for Sex Drive radio listeners - Win a Trip for 2 to Jamaica's hottest all inclusive resort, Hedonism III. Listen Monday through Thursday LIVE 7-8pm PST/ 10-11pm EST and visit www.wetalksex.com/hedonism.php for more details.

Guest: Jason Miller - Singer

With a voice that soothes the heart and a new groove to move your body, Jason Miller is cracking the R&B world wide open. Jason began performing as a thirst to entertain his friends. His obvious song writing skills and knack for creating melodies quickly turned into the one true passion that would lead him to the path of success in the music industry for the rest of his life. Drawing from influences such as Marvin Gaye and Michael Jackson, Jason now performs all around the world.

Jason just finished recording "Living Your Dream", the Official Michael Jackson Tribute song. Al Walser the producer is currently in Europe promoting the song. Jason recently completed his single "SuperModel" with DJ Boi Jeanius from Chicago's KISS FM. This record is breaking all over the world.

Power Play

2009-10-15T02:40:00.000-04:00

Do you know what the latest growing trend is in America's lovemaking circles? If you open your eyes you'll see hints of it in the body ornaments and body piercing fads all around you. Ever notice all those fashions featuring lots of leather and latex? What could all this mean?

It means that S & M (that's right sadomasochism) and B & D (bondage and discipline) is what's hot. You've got it! Students, secretaries, customer service reps, maybe even your relatives or your boss are really masters, mistresses, and/or slaves at heart. If you're really into it, S & M can be one of the 'safest' forms of sex around.

So now you think you're surrounded by degenerates and sickos? You think S & M belongs out there with homosexuality and fetishism and things that are just too weird and abnormal to accept? Well, think again - guys, when you make love to your girlfriend and you give her a little slap on the butt and she asks you to do it a little harder, that's S & M. And, ladies, when you are at the point of no return, you're climaxing, don't you sometimes dig your fingernails into his back? I thought so, that's S & M too. Do you enjoy that extra nipple stimulation, so rough that it has to hurt just a little to feel good?

Yes, S & M again. How about when he tells you all those nasty things he wants to do to you? And don't you feel a little humiliated when he calls you a whore or a slut during sex? That's B & D. When you blindfold your lover and tease him or her with sexual anticipation, it's all a form of B & D. If you've ever been in any of these common situations, then you are into S & M or B & D without even knowing it. And, by adding some knowledge of the S & M arts to your lovemaking, you can get a reputation for being a little more sophisticated than that other person they've been dating ...

Read the rest of this article here: Power Play (https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/PowerPlay.aspx?a_aid=sward) at The Loveology University Website where you'll find free articles, a bookstore, and a wealth of courses you can take all aimed at helping you have richer, more fulfilling sexual relationships.

Dra Ava and Brian McCarthy Discuss Intimacy on Sex Drive Radio -- www.wetalksex.com at 7 pm - Live On Your Computer

2009-10-14T19:47:00.003-04:00

We Talk Sex with Dr Ava Cadell and her special co-host is Actor, Comedian Brian McCarthy. The topic for conversation this week is "intimacy." Tonight's celebrity guest is Luenelle - Comedian and Actress. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners. Listen live at www.wetalksex.com

TO ASK QUESTIONS, LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

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Guest: Luenelle - Comedian and Actress

Luenell Campbell (born March 12, 1959), known professionally as Luenell, is an American comedienne and actress. She was born in Tollette, Arkansas and uses only her first name. She is the youngest of eight children. She was raised in Northern California.

The Conversation About Intimacy Continues Tonight on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell - 7 pm www.wetalksex.com

2009-10-13T19:29:00.001-04:00

We Talk Sex with Dr Ava Cadell. The topic for conversation this week is "intimacy." Tonight's celebrity guest is Daniel De Santos - Television and Film Actor. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.Listen live at www.wetalksex.com

TO ASK QUESTIONS, LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

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Guest: Daniel De Santos – Television and Film Actor

Daniel DeSanto (born March 6, 1980) is a Canadian actor.

He is of Italian descent. Daniel DeSanto is well known for his role in "Mean Girls" in 2004, however, his claim to fame is stemmed from the TV show Are You Afraid of the Dark? in which he played "Tucker." Daniel attended Martingrove Collegiate Institute and graduated in 1999. This is the same high school actor Kiefer Sutherland of TV series, 24, attended. After attending MCI, he then attended Ryerson Polytechnical University for Film Studies Daniel also, does the voice for Brock Leighton in the hit tv series Braceface.

Sex Herbs

2009-10-13T02:33:00.000-04:00

Sexual Herbs throughout the ages have been eagerly consumed no matter how unappetizing or bizarre. In our never-ending search for better sex, humans have ingested such diverse items as elephant tusks, lion blood, bull testicles, rhino horn, ram penis, pig genitals, and the dried remains of the Mediterranean Cantharis beetle, otherwise known as “Spanish Fly.”

Fortunately, we have made breakthroughs in the treatment of sexual dysfunction with natural herbs. Sex drive in both men and women can be enhanced with herbs; so can longer lasting erections, female lubrication, and more intense orgasms all resulting in sexual satisfaction.

Herbs are drugs and can interact with other medications you may be taking so always check with your medical doctor to determine if they are right for you. Among the more popular and effective herbs are the following ...

Read the rest of this article here: Sex Herbs (https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/SexHerbs.aspx?a_aid=sward) at The Loveology University Website where you'll find free articles, a bookstore, and a wealth of courses you can take all aimed at helping you have richer, more fulfilling sexual relationships.

Intimacy is The Hot Topic on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell - Celebrity Sexpert (www.wetalksex.com)

2009-10-12T19:00:00.000-04:00

We Talk Sex with Dr Ava Cadell. The topic for conversation this week is "intimacy." Tonight's celebrity guest is Jon Mack- Model/Singer/Actress. This show is not appropriate for under age listeners.

TO ASK QUESTIONS, LIVE - call 1-877-711-5611 from the US and Canada. International callers: 1-772-978-9099 or e-mail us at questions@wetalksex.com.

SPECIAL GIVEAWAY - September 28th - October 29th - we have a special giveaway for Sex Drive radio listeners - Win a Trip for 2 to Jamaica's hottest all inclusive resort, Hedonism III. Listen Monday through Thursday LIVE 7-8pm PST/ 10-11pm EST and visit www.wetalksex.com/hedonism.php for more details.

Guest: Jon Mack – Model/Singer/Actress

Born in Michigan, Mack was a performer at an early age: singing and teaching herself guitar. She became active in chorus and drama in high school, continuing studies at the Tisch School of Arts at New York University and the Lee Strasberg Institute in Los Angeles.

In 1999, she portrayed film legend Ava Gardner in the Emmy Award-winning biopic Introducing Dorothy Dandridge starring Halle Berry. In October 2009, she will be featured in the horror film Saw VI.

In March 2009, under the name Auradrone, she released her first album "Whitelite Britelite", a collection of original electronic rock music; two months later, she released a remix of the album as "Whitelite Britelite: Rehabilitated."

YOUR Chance to Ask Questions About Love, Sex & Relationships (Monday - Thursday 7 pm PST)

2009-10-12T18:21:00.001-04:00

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Communication (Part 4) on Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell - Celebrity Sexpert

2009-10-08T16:43:00.003-04:00

This is the final night of our radio shows about communication in your relationship. Communication is a cornerstone of a successful relationship - do you know how to really communicate? Dr Ava Cadell and Jackie Zeman share information about communication tonight and they take your calls live at 877-711-5611.

Sex Drive Radio airs live at 7 pm PST/10 pm EST and you can listen live at www.wetalksex.com -- just click on "listen now" to hear the show.

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Tonight's Celebrity Guest - Simone Sinclaire

Simone Sinclaire is the host of HDNet's new series "New York Confessions." On Thursday, September 17 at 10:30pm ET/PT, HDNet took its hit series "Vegas
Confessions" and moved it out East to the city that never sleeps for the new series, "New York Confessions" with host Simone Sinclaire.

Simone is currently the CEO and founder for EstablishedMen.com, Simone was featured in a 2009 Super Bowl commercial for the company. This national exposure helped her land the job as host of HDNet's new spin-off series "New York Confessions". During her stint as host of the provocative series,
Simone will be hitting all of New York City's hottest nightclubs, and finding beautiful people willing to share their craziest confessions - ranging from sex to drugs to rock n' roll, and everything in between.

Simone Sinclaire was raised in Toronto, Ontario by her French-Moroccan father and Russian mother. At a young age Simone became a competitive dancer and martial artist. As a teenager she was invited to represent Canada in WuShu and Tai Chi at the prestigious PanAm Games.

A passion for performing led Simone to her career of professional dancing and modeling. She also adding acting to her impressive resume as she began landing feature spots in films. Skyy Rockett Entertainment, the company behind HDNet's wildly popular "Vegas Confessions" series, produces "New York Confessions."

Communication is the Hot Topic on Sex Drive Radio - www.wetalksex.com at 7 pm PST

2009-10-07T18:53:00.004-04:00

The discussion about communication continues tonight with Jackie Zeman and I. We welcome your calls at 877... and the show airs at 7 pm PST/10 pm EST. You can listen live at www.wetalksex.com

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Daily Hedonism Question -

What is Adam and Eve's tagline? America's most trusted source for...?? (hint. Check out their website...www.adameve.com)

Karen Shenaz David is an Indian-born English actress and singer-songwriter.
David was born in Shillong, Meghalaya, India, and raised in Toronto, Canada
before moving to London to study at the Guildford School of Acting. She
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Karen released her first single "It's Me (You're Talking To)" in 2003, which was a top 10 airplay hit in Germany, Austria and Switzerland. She is currently working on her highly anticipated debut album, "Me vs. Me", with acclaimed producers such as A.R. Rahman, Johnny Douglas, and the Bombay Dub Orchestra. Prior to releasing her solo work, she was the lead vocalist on Dutch Dance musician/producer DJ Jurgen's 2000 eurodance single "Higher & Higher." She has also acted in The Legend of Dick and Dom and Batman Begins.

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2009-10-06T20:20:00.005-04:00

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Michael Copon was born on November 13th, 1982 in Chesapeake, Virginia, USA to a Filipino father and German american mother. Michael Copon was cast by the Fox Kids Network as Blue Ranger Lucas on The Power Rangers less than a year after he graduated from Deep Creek High School in 2001. He quickly advanced from high school senior and defensive end on Deep Creek's football team in 2000 to print model in Los Angeles to Blue Ranger Lucas on the Fox Kids Network The Power Rangers. He is religious and a little shy. Michael Copon is also acting as 'Vin' in the show Beyond The Break on The-N Channel. He has held roles in television shows like CSI Miami, That's So Raven, and One Tree Hill.

Tantric Kissing

2009-10-01T14:28:00.004-04:00

A kiss can be one of the most erotic exchanges between lovers. A kiss is often the first intimate physical contact with a new lover and some people believe they can tell a lot about a person’s lovemaking skills by the way they kiss. Some people can reach orgasm through kissing alone.

Not wanting to be kissed by your partner is a signal of trouble in the relationship. Making kissing a daily ritual will embolden and re-ignite passion in your relationship and it will keep the juices flowing.

There are many different kinds of kisses: slow, quick, deep, wet, hard, soft, breathy, and then there is Tantric kissing. Kiss your lover at least twice a day and experiment with the different kinds of kisses from below ...

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Tantric Intention: Stimulate and Incorporate Your Five Senses

2009-10-01T14:18:00.003-04:00

These are just a few of the Tantric techniques in Dr. Ava's Tantra Workbook by Dr. Ava Cadell. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

We don’t always need a big production when it comes to lovemaking, but we do need to be prepared for Tantric sex. All of us appreciate a lover who knows how to set the mood. When you and your lover have the right ambience, you will have a greater opportunity to enjoy a fulfilling and romantic sexual experience.

One of the best ways to set the mood for love is to incorporate all five of your senses in your lovemaking. If you don’t utilize just one of your senses, you deprive yourself of 20% of the pleasure. That’s why it’s best to prepare something to enhance all five of your senses prior to your lovemaking session. This way you will
have the intention of incorporating and stimulating all of your senses.

Here are Some Suggestions

Taste:

Make sure you have all your favorite finger foods and beverages available, such as strawberries, honey, marshmallows, grapes, chocolate, celery, asparagus, carrots, licorice, wine, juices and water.
Feed each other.
Use edible lotions and lubricants.

Sound:

Play music you and your lover enjoy.
Use erotic talk.
Say your lover’s name often.
And, don’t forget to scream, “Yes, yes, yes!” when your lover gets it right.

Sight:

Make love in front of a mirror.
Decorate with scented candles and flowers. This also engages your sense of smell.
Dress up in lingerie.

Smell:

Light incense.
Wear your lover's favorite perfume or cologne.
Enjoy the scent of your lover's body.

Touch:

Cover your lover’s body in scented oil, lotion or powder.
Wear touchable fabrics such as silk, lace, satin, velvet, latex, and leather.
Caress your lover’s body with different fabrics.
Make love on satin sheets or in a bubble bath.

How do You Achieve a Trigasm?

2009-10-01T14:11:00.005-04:00

These are just a few of the techniques in Dr. Ava's Tantra Workbook by Dr. Ava Cadell. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

I have been teaching the combination of simultaneous G-spot and Pearl/clitoral stimulation for several years. Couples loved it. Women got some serious attention--learning how to climax internally and externally at the same time, and men felt like they were heroes.

So, here’s the revolution, the ultimate technique in orgasmic potential for women--TriGasm. A TriGasm is the result of arousing the 3 points of pleasure, the Pearl/clitoris, G-spot and Rosebud/anus simultaneously. Many people are experienced with various forms of dual stimulation-- a Lingam and a toy, a tongue and a finger, and other combinations.

Here are some tips for you as you go off on your Trigasm exploration. Begin setting the mood and prepare to stimulate all five senses. Be creative using sensual sound, visual arousal, and feeling your lovers heat. You should also have some lubricant nearby, especially for G-spot and anal play. The final tip-tell your lover to take up juggling, because it's going to take some coordination to master this technique, but it's well worth the effort and mighty fun while learning!

Of course there's always the revolutionary new TriGasm Vibrator for those who don't want to do all the work. Here is the ideal way to create 3 points of stimulation with a lover.

The woman should lie back while her lover lavishes her Pearl with oral pleasure until she has reached a level 8 on a pleasure scale of 1 to 10. (10 equals orgasm.)
Change course and stimulate her vulva in small circles with the tongue or fingers for 2 minutes.
Return to the Pearl and orally increase her level of pleasure to a 9; almost to the point of no return.
At this peak, he should insert his forefinger palm up into her Yoni and find her G-spot, then tap, tap, tap it gently towards her navel.
Simultaneously with step four, he must stimulate her Rosebud/anus gently with a
feather, his pinky or a vibrator to bring his lover to a mind-blowing, earth shattering, energy-melting multiple orgasm.

Tantric Massage for Lovers

2009-10-01T13:46:00.004-04:00

These are just some of the Tantric Massage Techniques in Dr. Ava's Tantra Workbook by Dr. Ava Cadell. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

Massage is a great way to relieve tension, improve blood circulation, move energy around the body and sexually arouse your lover! Massage is also a mutually satisfying way of helping couples exhibit intimacy for one another. Ours is a culture starved for touch, and massage is a quick, easy means to feed this hunger.

"Easy?" You may be asking yourself. Well, you don't need to be a certified massage therapist to give a great Tantric massage. The most important component of a great massage is the desire to please your lover.

So, here are some suggestions. For starters, set the mood for a romantic environment by dimming the lights, burning some candles and incense, playing your lover's favorite relaxing music and warming the room so that both of you will be comfortable. I know pretty soon you'll be making enough heat of your own, but it's always best to start at a temperature in which you are both comfortable especially since you should both be naked.

You can use scented mineral oil, massage oil or essential oils, or edible massage creams, lotions or powder. The choice is yours, but for the sake of this Tantric massage, I’ll assume you are using some kind of oil.

Begin with the Back Side
About two tablespoons of oil should be enough to start with. Pour the oil into your hands first and then rub your hands together so that they will be nice and warm to the touch. Then place your hands on your lover's lower back and let your hands glide up your lovers back all the way up to the neck, around the shoulders and back down, over the buttocks and the Rosebud.

The Hand Slide
Now that you've got the oil on your lover's back, begin with your hands parallel to each other and slide them down each side of the spine, massaging all the way down to the lower back and over the buttocks. Move your hands up all the way to the neck, over the shoulders and down the arms to the fingertips. Repeat this motion at least six times. As you do this, ask your lover for feedback. If he/she is not the talkative type, then just know that it's better to make the massage too soft than too strong. Remember, it's all about giving as much pleasure as you can.

Pull-Ups
For variation, try alternating one hand after the other as you pull up and stroke the sides of your lover's body. Start by placing both of your hands over one of your lover’s hips and then gently pull up towards the spine. Move your hands to the waist and pull up towards the spine. Then take your hands to the side of the chest or breast and pull up towards the spine. Put your hands just under the armpits and pull up towards the spine. Don't forget to do both sides.

Kneading
If you have ever kneaded pizza or bread dough, then this technique will be a breeze but if you haven't, try squeezing your lover's back and buttocks between your thumb and fingers in a flowing motion (not too hard) with one hand, and then with the other hand. Now slide your hands to another area on the back and repeat until your lover has been well kneaded from neck to buttocks. The fleshy parts of the body like the buttocks can stand more pressure, so feel free to squeeze just a little harder and gently spread the cheeks as you knead. This can be very exciting for the receiver. Ostrich feathers feel the most sensual.

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2009-09-29T21:53:00.007-04:00

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2009-09-28T17:50:00.005-04:00

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Tantric Sex: Introduction to Chakras

2009-09-24T12:58:00.003-04:00

The meaning of life is learning to love and to be loved. -Dr. Ava

The word Chakra means Wheel in the Sanskrit language and according to Tantric beliefs, there are seven energy wheels in the center of our body. These are the chakras and they are all interconnected to light, sound and color. Understanding the chakras allows us to understand the relationship between our consciousness and our physical body.

If you've ever felt a sudden lump in your throat, butterflies in your stomach or an aching heart, then you have experienced your chakras trying to communicate with you. They are giving you signals that you need to pay attention to; otherwise they will become unbalanced and can cause emotional or even physical discomfort, pain or even disease.

Here are the 7 Chakras; their location, color and energy source1st Chakra:

1st Chakra: Root is located in the perineum (which is the strip between the Rosebud/anus and the Yoni/vagina or the anus and Jewels/testicles) The Root Chakra is ‘Red’ in color and it's our energy center to our basic instinct of survival. The Root grounds us in the physical world.
2nd Chakra: Sacral is located in the sexual organs. The Sacral Chakra is ‘Orange’and its energy source is connected to our reproductive capacity and sexual desire.
3rd Chakra: Solar Plexus is located in the stomach at the navel. Also known as our Seat of Emotions, this chakra is ‘Yellow’ and it's our energy center for power which includes anger and laughter.
4th Chakra: Heart is ‘Green’ in color and it represents our ability to give and receive love and compassion.
5th Chakra: Throat is ‘Sky Blue’. It energizes our communication and our ability to listen.
6th Chakra: Third eye is located in the center of the forehead and is the color ‘Indigo’. It is connected to our imagination and psychic energy.
7th Chakra: Crown is on the top of the head and is ‘Deep Violet’. This is our spiritual energy that connects us to the Universe.

Introduction to Chakras

Here is how to determine if your Chakras are open or closed.

Root Chakra: When your root Chakra is open it gives you a sense of security; of being in control of your life and your destiny. When your root Chakra is closed, you may feel insecure about your life, guilty about things you’ve done and a sense of not belonging.

Sacral (Sexual) Chakra: When your sacral Chakra is open, you feel creative, free of guilt or shame, emotionally and sexually fulfilled. When the sacral Chakra is closed, it can result in feelings of frustration, lack of sexual desire, and can block your creativity.

Solar Plexus Chakra: When your solar plexus Chakra is open, you feel confident, courageous and full of energy like nothing can stop you from reaching your goals. When your solar plexus is closed, you are fearful of success, resentful of others and you just feel like giving up.

Heart Chakra: When your heart Chakra is open, you love yourself and others without judgment. You are compassionate and feel emotionally balanced. When your heart Chakra is closed, you feel unloved, depressed and unworthy. You find it hard to trust anyone.

Throat Chakra: When your throat Chakra is open, you have the ability to express yourself honestly and creatively so that people hear and understand what you say. You are also good at listening and are able to give constructive advice. When your throat Chakra is closed, you feel insecure about communicating your thoughts for fear of rejection, or fear that people may misunderstand what you say.

Crown Chakra: When your crown Chakra is open, you feel connected to the Universe and have peace of mind. You know that you have taken the right path and that your journey will make a difference to humanity. When your crown Chakra is closed, you question your knowledge and you fear the unknown. You are skeptical. Your life’s mission is unclear and your spiritual growth is stunted.

Third Eye: When your third eye Chakra is open you feel intuitive, you think clearly and have the ability to visualize what you want and then manifest it. When your third eye Chakra is closed, it’s hard to imagine anything going right. It’s difficult to follow through on projects and life can be confusing with lots of conflicts.

This is an excerpt from Dr. Ava Cadell's Tantra Workbook. Visit The Loveology University Bookstore to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have a richer and more fulfilling sex life.

Q&A From Married Men: How to Improve Lovemaking

2009-09-22T15:28:00.005-04:00

Dear Dr. Ava

Questions from Married Men by Dr. Ava Cadell
Improve Lovemaking

Question: I have been happily married for 3 years to a wonderful, loving woman, a great mother and a true friend. I would like to learn additional ways to please my terrific wife. She never complains, even when we make love and she doesn’t have an orgasm. She always wants to please me orally, in different sexual positions and she even masturbates me when I want. She is so unselfish that I want to please her even more. I want her to have the best orgasms, but I don’t know how to make her come. I’d like to learn more in order to have an excellent selection of techniques and ideas. I'm sure it's best to learn from a woman, especially you.

Answer: I’m always impressed when a man wants to improve his lovemaking skills to please his lover. First and foremost, you must understand that a woman needs to be prepared for sex unlike a man who can get aroused very quickly. You want to create some sexual anticipation with some erotic talk to turn her on. Here are 10 things that a woman wants to hear most from her lover:

You are so beautiful.
I love the way you smell.
Your pussy is so pretty.
Nobody turns me on as much as you do.
You're the sexiest woman I've ever made love to.
You're the best lover I've ever had.
I love being inside you.
I could give you oral sex for days.
You have an incredible body.
Your breasts are perfect.

Now that you have got her in the mood, spend time kissing her while she is still dressed. This is the true art of seduction. Here are 10 tips for kissing:

Build anticipation by kissing all around your lover’s face.
Trace the outline of your lover’s lips with the tip of your tongue.
Begin your kiss slowly and gently with emotion and sensitivity.
Kiss without using your tongue, slightly open mouthed, with sweet breath.
Take your lover’s bottom lip between the two of yours and suck gently.
While kissing, lick you lover’s teeth with your tongue.
To increase sexual excitement, make your kiss wet.
Wrap you’re your lips around your lover’s tongue and suck passionately.
Follow your lover’s kissing techniques and emulate them.
Use hot or cold liquids to create erotic sensations.

Okay, now her juices should be flowing and she should be begging you to make passionate love to her. The more advanced sexual techniques that you need to incorporate into your lovemaking include ...

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How to Love a Woman

2009-09-22T15:17:00.004-04:00

Always make your lover the center of your attention. Don't answer the phone or pager while you’re with her intimately. If you’re married with children, tell them mom and dad need to have their private play time (and then make them honor that). Turn off the TV if you don’t want to turn off your woman. Bring home little trinkets for no special reason. A single flower or some chocolates will let her know that you were thinking about her, even when she wasn’t with you.

You can also do a lot to set the mood for a woman by stimulating all five of her senses. Some ways you might do this include:

Play her favorite music, whisper sweet love-talk before, during, and after you make love to her.
Stimulate her sense of smell with fresh flowers, exotic incense, scented candles, and her favorite cologne.
Decorate the bedroom as if you were expecting a VIP to spend the night with pictures, ornaments, and candles.
Create new touches with oils, lotions, and powders.
Consider making love on satin sheets and then tickle her with feathers.
Order in a gourmet dinner or buy delectable snacks and feed her by hand.
You should undress a woman slowly and kiss and caress every part of her skin before making love to her. Sex should not be a race to the finish line. Go slowly and make love to each part of her. And learn how to remove a woman's bra with one hand in the dark so you don’t fumble around and cause the laughter that will break the mood.

Women like to fantasize about an upcoming romantic encounter. To create sexual anticipation, call her during the day to prepare her for the evenings events. Tell her what you plan to do to her. You can also send emails — just remember that what you write is like something you put on a postcard. Chances are good it will be read by others, so don’t go into too many graphic details.

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Changing Guilt Into Gilt

2009-09-17T18:02:00.005-04:00

Guilt is feeling ashamed, whether the humiliation is justified or not. We have all been shamed for something. As far as I know, The Guinness Book of World Records has no knowledge of anyone on this planet having escaped shame so far. And even if our “misdeeds” may seem comical when we look back on their original setting, the self-punishing effects of the guilt can stifle us for years.

Let’s look at Gloria’s experience; it is a good case in point. Gloria is a woman in her 20s who recalls the first time she was sexually shamed, as follows: “I was four years old, and my six-year old playmate Richard took me behind my house and showed me his penis. I didn’t even know what it was, so I just looked at it out of curiosity.

Well, our mothers caught us and all hell broke loose. You would have thought an Immaculate Conception was about to occur. And the funny thing is, Richard and I were being ignored while our parents were running to each other in near hysterics. Even a couple of neighbors came out their doors because of the commotion. I stood there wondering what was wrong with the adults; I’d never before seen them run amok. I began to think that adults were alien creatures.

“And the incident was much ado about nothing; I could sense that Richard and I had not done anything as horrible as our parents’ reaction to it. But I was so embarrassed. I felt my face grow hot. Like a snake in the grass, I slithered off to a corner of our yard and began building a tiny house out of rocks.

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Changing Guilt into Gilt
Changing Guilt into Giltby Dr. Ava Cadell

What guilt is:

Guilt is feeling ashamed, whether the humiliation is justified or not. We have all been shamed for something. As far as I know, The Guinness Book of World Records has no knowledge of anyone on this planet having escaped shame so far. And even if our “misdeeds” may seem comical when we look back on their original setting, the self-punishing effects of the guilt can stifle us for years. Let’s look at Gloria’s experience; it is a good case in point. Gloria is a woman in her 20s who recalls the first time she was sexually shamed, as follows: “I was four years old, and my six-year old playmate Richard took me behind my house and showed me his penis. I didn’t even know what it was, so I just looked at it out of curiosity. Well, our mothers caught us and all hell broke loose. You would have thought an Immaculate Conception was about to occur. And the funny thing is, Richard and I were being ignored while our parents were running to each other in near hysterics. Even a couple of neighbors came out their doors because of the commotion. I stood there wondering what was wrong with the adults; I’d never before seen them run amok. I began to think that adults were alien creatures. “And the incident was much ado about nothing; I could sense that Richard and I had not done anything as horrible as our parents’ reaction to it. But I was so embarrassed. I felt my face grow hot. Like a snake in the grass, I slithered off to a corner of our yard and began building a tiny house out of rocks.

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I squatted there, huddled into myself, muttering something about building a rock house and hiding inside it. "Far away across the yard, I could hear the neighbors trying to calm my mother down. Everyone was talking more rationally, but I didn’t dare look up and face them.

This is the first time I can ever remember feeling shame about anything. The incident probably affected me somewhat sexually later on, as far as inhibitions, but not nearly as much as it affected me emotionally. Whenever people around me react unreasonably, my first reaction is to think it’s my fault. To this day, I hate all the hoopla that guilt causes; it’s not necessary.”

The guilt Gloria feels has been put on her and was blown out of proportion. However, Gloria turned her guilt into gilt by realizing, even at age four, that the problem was the adults’ over-reaction to sexual curiosity, not her and Richard. But other forms of guilt can indicate genuine remorse. We can feel remiss in our duty to another person, which is also guilt.

I’d like to give you an illustration of guilt as a “double-edged sword” taken from my own life. I love to travel, yet I feel guilty if I accept a two-week lecture assignment overseas and have to be away from my husband. Usually I invite my husband to come along, but a close relative of his is very ill and he cannot leave to go abroad. So, I would feel equally guilty if he were to travel with me and the relative died while we were away. In this instance, guilt becomes like a take-off on that old expression “damned if you do; damned if you don’t.” I am putting the guilt on myself, but it is based on my love and concern for the people closest to me. Is it necessary for me to feel guilty? Or can I turn guilt into gilt by just making a choice when these travel-situations pop up and trusting that I have made the best decision I can, realizing that I am only human.

Guilt is also control and manipulation. Unfortunately, people “lay guilt trips” sometimes because it simply works. If all else fails, others will often do what we want if they are shamed into it often enough. But that kind of guilt will turn to rust eventually when resentment and rebellion set in.

What guilt is not:

Guilt is not a healthy motivator. How many times have we accepted a date out of guilt? Anita, an educator in her 30s, had dated Daryl three times when she realized she didn’t feel any chemistry with him. “He was a perfectly nice guy and we had a good time with each other,” Anita said, “but I just didn’t feel he was the love of my life. We didn’t click romantically. Yet I continued to date him because I felt guilty about telling him I wasn’t interested.”

I advised Anita to make a clean break of it and let Daryl down gently so that each could move on and find the right person. “When I recognized I was going out with Daryl to avoid feeling guilty about saying ‘no’, I understood I wasn’t being sincere to me or to him. I didn’t owe Daryl a date and I didn't owe him my guilt, which must have seemed like pity. I did owe it to both of us to be honest.” Anita felt obligated into “mercy dates” as many people call them. She wanted to give the situation with Daryl a chance, but she also felt it had no future. Fortunately, Anita recognized the potentially detrimental consequences of continuing a relationship she didn’t want and the importance of nipping it in the bud. “Once I saw the benefits of cutting it off with Daryl, I felt better too,” Anita said. “I was free to find someone more suitable for me. Daryl was free to find someone who would love him more than I could. And hopefully, we can still remain friends and talk about any new people who come into our lives.” Guilt is not a noble gesture.

Pam, a pretty, outgoing, 16-year-old high school junior agreed to go on a blind date with an 18-year-old college freshman named Roger. "We hit it off beautifully over the phone; we seemed to have a lot in common,” Pam said. “My friend Sandra had set us up.

She had given him my phone number, and we were to double date with Sandra and her boyfriend. Well, to get acquainted before our big date, Roger agreed to meet Sandra and me for a few minutes at a coffee shop after school ...

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Aphrodisiacs

2009-09-17T17:54:00.002-04:00

Throughout the ages, men and women have eagerly swallowed almost any substance that was called an aphrodisiac, no matter how unappetizing or bizarre.

In our never-ending search for better sex, humans have consumed such diverse items as oysters, eels, elephant tusks, lion blood, bull testicles, rhino horn, ram penis, pig genitals, marijuana, and the dried remains of the Mediterranean cantharis beetle, otherwise known as “Spanish Fly.”

The sea is a rich source of legendary aphrodisiacs. Oysters, shrimp, clams, anchovies, and eels have been reputed since ancient times to increase sexual desire. Actually, the word Aphrodisiac came from Aphrodite the Greek goddess of love and desire, who herself was a gift from the sea. Many roots, vegetables, and fruits became known as aphrodisiacs simply because their shapes were designed by nature as a clue to their use. And the ancients were always on the look out for such secret signs. So, based on shape alone, they chose to eat asparagus, bananas, carrots, celery, cucumbers, dates, figs, and tomatoes among others in the hope that they would arouse passion and bestow vigor. Eating the genitals of animals noted for their potency, such as bulls and rams, is another historical practice meant to ensure virility.

Are these substances of mythology really aphrodisiacs? As it turns out, some of them do work as sex boosters. For example, oysters are a prime source of zinc, one of the essential minerals for men. Semen is rich in zinc, and adequate zinc is needed for sperm production and hormone metabolism. Oysters also release testosterone in women ...

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Gloria Kisel is Dr Ava Cadell's Celebrity Guest Tonight on Sex Drive Radio - 7 pm PST at www..wetalksex.com

2009-09-16T18:38:00.000-04:00

Glamorous Gloria Kisel who is multi-talented as an Actress, producer, writer and owner of Trendy PR, one of Hollywood’s top celebrity publicists. Gloria Kisel has her own webseries on www.LaCosta.tv Celebrities from the Heart and she also writes the famous "Kiss and Tell" column for LaCosta Magazine where she's the entertainment director. Check out Gloria’s websites at: www.revistalacosta.tv and www.lacosta.tv

Tune in to Sex Drive Radio at www.WeTalkSex.com to hear host Dr. Ava Cadell interview Gloria Kisel Wednesday September 16th from 7:00 PM to 8:00 PM Pacific Time.

Dr Ava Cadell Shares the Story of How She Went From a Sex Symbol to a Sexpert - You Can Do it Too

2009-09-15T21:03:00.001-04:00

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Dr Ava Cadell is a top Sexpert. She shares information on relationships, romance, intimacy and human sexuality with her clients. Now she reveals how she went from sex symbol to sex expert. She also shares how you can become a certified sexpert and the ways it can truly change all aspects of your life.

Sexual Confidence is the Topic on Sex Drive Radio and Samm Levine is the Celebrity Guest with Dr Ava Cadell

2009-09-15T17:45:00.005-04:00

Tonight at 7 pm PST/10 pm EST join Dr Ava Cadell and Jackie Zeman as they continue the discussion about Sexual Confidence on Sex Drive Radio. You can listen live on your computer at www.wetalksex.com. Dr Ava and Jackie are taking your questions LIVE - beginning at 7 pm PST.

To call in with your question, call 877-711-5611 or if you're shy, email your questions to questions@wetalksex.com

Samm Levine is Dr Ava's Celebrity Guest

Samuel Franklin "Samm" Levine (born March 12, 1982) is an American television and film actor. He is known for his portrayal of Neal Schweiber on NBC's short-lived Freaks and Geeks.

In addition, Levine has guest-starred on Spin City, Boston Public, Yes, Dear, Undeclared, The Drew Carey Show, That's So Raven, That '70s Show, How I Met Your Mother, My Name Is Earl, Entourage, Veronica Mars and Family Guy. His film credits include Not Another Teen Movie, Club Dread, Pulse, Anderson's Cross, Sydney White and Quentin Tarantino's Inglourious Basterds and What I Like About you.

Levine was born in Chicago, Illinois; his father is a dentist (just like the father of his character, Neal Schweiber, in Freaks and Geeks).^[1] Levine is the youngest member of the New York Friars' Club. He added an extra 'M' to his name because his actors guild already had a listing for a 'Sam Levine'.

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Sexual Confidence is the Topic on Sex Drive Radio - Listen Live Tonight on Your Computer

2009-09-14T19:33:00.000-04:00

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Sex Drive Radio - Sexual Confidence is the Topic - Monday - Thursday at 7 pm PST www.wetalksex.com

2009-09-14T15:31:00.001-04:00

The Hot Topic this week on Sex Drive Radio is "Sexual Confidence. "What do you need to be sexually confident?

My celebrity guest is: Christopher Showerman who showed off his yummy body in George of the Jungle 2. Since then he has appeared on TV series like "The OC" and "CSI: Miami." His next movies are Bad Day - WW II, The Ocean, Dead Country, and thriller Big Game. He has produced Between The Sand and The Sky (he also wrote and will be in) coming soon and also Howl.

Homemade Sex Toys - What Can You Use Around the House as a Sex Toy

2009-09-14T14:59:00.004-04:00

Typical sex toys include vibrators, dildos, butt plugs and other well known items. The type of homemade sex toys you can find around your house are only limited by your imagination - but remember to be safe. If you want to use something that is unsanitary as a sex toy, its best to put a condom on the item. Be creative, have fun, but be safe. Here are a few sex toy ideas -

Cathy: I have heard that homemade sex toys are the best but have no idea how to make one. Does anyone know how to make homemade sextoys?

Peter: Making homemade sextoys depends on how creative you are. Just turn your favorite fruits, vegetables, or hardware stuff into some amazing sex toy. Bananas are a universal favorite. Cucumbers are a great choice to begin with. Here is a list of some of the items you can use as homemade sex toys:

Shampoo Bottles
Cucumbers
Zucchini
Sausage
Candles
Broom Stick
Door Knob
Bed Post

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The Penis Workout

2009-09-10T18:43:00.003-04:00

It’s a known fact. As we get older, we get shorter, literally shrinking in height. However, some people who stick to a strict workout regiment, including exercises such as stretching, yoga, or Pilates, can avoid shrinkage and enhance their overall health. The same can be said about the penis. If you don't stretch and exercise, your penis will be smaller, operating at less than its fullest potential. There is plenty of extra skin and tissue at the base of the penis just waiting to be manipulated, pulled, and stretched. The Penis Workout is designed to help you get the most out of your pride and joy.

Penis enlargement exercises have been practiced in many Asian and African cultures for centuries. Exercise is the most effective way to enlarge the penis with lasting results. While stretching the penis, the tissue will elongate and add permanent length. However, the size of a man’s heart is more important than his penis as far as most women are concerned. Still, since size is so important to men, here are some elongation exercises that can help you make the most of your penis. Keep in mind that width is generally more satisfying than length, but if length is what you’re after, here’s how to get it naturally. More importantly, these exercises will not only increase the length of your penis, they’re good for you.

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The History of Sex Toys

2009-09-09T00:02:00.004-04:00

Adult toys have been around since the tenth century, if not before. In ancient Greece and Rome, dildos were carved out of everything they could get their hands on from wood, glass, leather, gold, silver, and even animal horns. In China during the Ming Dynasty between 1368 and 1644, penis rings were made out of jade and ivory and in Japan the first Ben-War Balls were made out of lead and mercury.

In 1949 Alfred Kinsey reported that 20% of women used some kind of object for sexual insertion: cucumbers, bananas, candles, and so on. Anything you use at home to enhance your lovemaking is a sex toy. Whether it's a scarf to blindfold or restrain your lover with, an ice-cube to rub on the inside of your lover's thigh, some whipped cream on the nipples, or a spatula for a little light spanking.

The great explosion for the sex industry came in the sexual revolution of the 1960's, but most dildos were too hard and made of materials such as metal and hard plastic. By the 1980's sex toy technology produced new softer plastics.

Today you can get sex toys made out of realistic jelly rubber, silicone and elastomer, a hypoallergenic material most suitable for people with allergic reactions or chemical sensitivities. Most sex toys are porous so you should clean them properly with mild soap and water after each use. It is possible to transmit infections on sex toys so never share them with anyone unless they use a condom on the toy. And never use a toy anally and then vaginally without using a condom to prevent transmission of bacteria.

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Sex Drive Radio -- The Hot Topic is The Ups and Downs of Break Ups

2009-09-06T18:47:00.002-04:00

12 Tips to Great Sex

2009-09-04T11:08:00.003-04:00

I believe that regularly occurring and frequent sex will produce certain emotional and physical health benefits.

It has long been established that there are numerous health benefits related to sexual activity, an awareness that has been recorded in our culture for centuries in the form of such old wives’s tales as "use it, or lose it." Just as if you don't use your household appliances regularly, they become rusty and break down.

Now you can tell your lover, spouse, significant other, or even yourself what you've hoped to hear for years! Not only is sex fun and exciting - it's healthy. "Sexercise" your body and see the benefits. Do it alone or with someone, but do it. Some of the same physical benefits you seek by working out at the gym are literally right at your fingertips.

Are you tired of waiting in line to use the barbells? Is the treadmill tearing up your kneecaps? Does that personal trainer show no mercy - no pain, no gain? Tone those muscles, improve your health, and give your body a boost with Dr. Ava's Sexercise Tips.

Tip 1: Change sexual positions to stimulate different muscles.

Tip 2: Exercise the muscles in your tongue by using it to write the alphabet or love letters on your lover's body.

Tip 3: Give your lover a sensuous massage to stimulate their skin, improve circulation, and help remove toxins.

By enjoying ourselves sexually we can actually improve our bodies both physically and mentally. Did you know that during sex, the flow of blood throughout the body not only improves circulation but also eliminates headaches? The improved flow of blood along the spinal column to the brain that results from an orgasm may just be the right thing to get rid of that migraine. No more cliche excuses ladies! Men, the next time your partner says, "I've got a headache," you can say "Good, let's make love and get rid of it." Even that heavy breathing with someone you love is healthy as you regulate and exercise your respiratory organs.

If you think you're overweight and need to lose a few pounds, there's no more fun way to do it than with increased sexual activity. It won't counteract the effects of overeating, but it does burn up calories and can also help turn fat into muscle more quickly than other forms of exercise; plus, working on that muscle tone can't be more fun then while having sex. The natural tensing of your muscles while engaging in sex can work on the shoulders, neck, biceps, thighs, abs, stomach, and buttocks. The relaxation that follows helps work as a natural sedative.

Pump up your love muscles and the world will look a whole lot brighter.

Tip 4: Men, your PC muscle (love muscle) is just under the penis. It's the same muscle that you use to stop the flow of urine. Squeeze it to prolong lovemaking and control orgasm.

Tip 5: Ladies, your love muscle is located between the anus and the vagina. Exercise your PC muscle to squeeze your lover's penis and increase erotic sensations.

Having trouble sleeping? Well, take Dr. Ava's advice. There is no better cure for insomnia than good sex. You feel so relaxed that it naturally leads you into a deep sleep - and guys, wrap your arms around your special someone. Help cuddle them off to dreamland. The opposite is also true, ladies. Imagine the magic of waking up in the morning by lovemaking at dawn. It gets both your hearts and minds racing and it's healthier than caffeine anytime.

The physical and emotional aspects of sex can, and do work together in improving self-esteem and adding to a sense of well-being. The unique sense of intimate connection with your lover cannot be duplicated by any other activity.

Believe it or not, sex can also work as a laxative, toning and controlling the lower abdominal muscles. The muscle relaxant post-orgasmic state has so many benefits that it can solve a host of problems, even constipation.

Stressed? What better cure than sex?

Tip 6: If you're feeling tense, set aside some quiet time and shut out the deadlines and pressures, if only for a "quickie."

You will find that many of the symptoms of stress will disappear with a little loving. Not only will you feel a lot looser, you'll breathe better, and some of those other problems relating to stress - poor judgment, short temper, or a sense of helplessness, will begin to fade into oblivion.

Feeling good sexually is a natural high that helps make all those little problems of the day seem a little less important. So, the next time you need a little relief and there is no one else around, masturbation is as good an activity as people once considered was bad. If you find yourself alone and without a partner, so what! We all occasionally find ourselves alone with time on our hands (pun intended). While my "sexercise" prescriptions are a lot of fun for couples, use your most erotic organ (your brain) and all the same physical benefits I've mentioned can be yours alone.

Tip 7: An orgasm a day will keep menstrual cramps away by providing a natural decongestion, resulting in less of the pain that can be so...well, irritating.

Women have a multi-orgasmic capacity that may remain untapped without a little help from a "friend". Explore that elusive G-spot area and you might discover a longer, deeper, more powerful orgasm than you ever imagined.

Tip 8: Experiment when that live partner isn't around. This is the time to let your fantasies run rampant; use sex toys, erotic audios, or videos to stimulate your senses and heighten your arousal.

Since sexual fulfillment also involves your brain, it can improve your concentration and contribute greatly to your powers of imagination and creativity. If your work is getting you down, close your eyes and think about that ideal lover. I assure you, when you finish fantasizing, your mind and body will be ready to tackle the challenge that moments before seemed impossible.

Ladies, do you secretly fantasize about your special someone watching you do a striptease? Tell him. Men, do you have a fantasy where your girl friend or wife dominates you? Tell her! Are you curious about anal sex? Buy a butt plug and experiment. There is absolutely nothing too wild or unusual in sex, as long as it's between two consensual adults.

Tip 9: Share your innermost thoughts and watch your relationship flourish.

Tip 10: Use the power of suggestion and role-playing to make your fantasies come true.

If you trust each other implicitly, and love your partner with abandon, nothing will embolden your relationships more than the sharing of fantasies. What safer way for you single people to begin to share sexual intimacy than watching each other masturbate or helping each other to reach an orgasm without intercourse.

Tip 11: Learn to share your bodies without embarrassment and the trust that you develop for each other will be a solid foundation upon which to build a future together.

The pleasure which comes from watching the love of your life reach his or her pinnacle of sexual satisfaction can be the most beautiful sight in the world.

The ultimate "sexercise" to practice with your lover may be Tantric sex. A sacred kind of love, Tantric sex helps you concentrate on both the healing and energizing effects of harmonious breathing. While making love in the lotus position, you breathe out as your lover breathes in, hypnotically relaxing, it aids in the exchange of yin and yang (male and female energy). If there is a better way of getting in touch with your masculine and feminine selves, I'd like to hear about it!

Tantric exercises share a deeper ability to communicate. It is the purest way of sharing the best prescription for health - SEX!

Tip 12: One of the oldest Tantric exercises which combine a physical, mental, and spiritual way of life is the Venus Butterfly Technique which was first practiced in India around 3000 B.C. By simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and tapping on the G-Spot (located approximately two inches inside, on the upper wall of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix), it is possible for the woman to reach both an internal orgasm and an external one which may result in multiple orgasms.

There has been an enormous amount of psychological research focusing on the relationship between sexuality and mental health. Recent medical studies by the American Heart Association have confirmed the physical benefits of an active sex life. The American Association of Urologists and significant medical school studies at the Universities of California and Indiana, just to name two, has documented studies about the health aspects of sexual activity. The Touch Institute in Florida has evidence that touch is the most powerful form of communication and maintenance of good health, physically and emotionally.

The emotional fulfillment that comes from a healthy sex life results in the relaxation of your muscles and your brain. Sex is good for your heart and lungs. Orgasms can alleviate certain headaches, the pain of menstrual cramps, act as a laxative, and help to burn calories, keep muscles toned, and organs healthy. It can have the effect of an anti-depressant, a mild sedative. Better Sex can stimulate creativity, improve concentration, and reduce stress. And...most importantly, it feels good!

Go for the gold - but always safely. Don't jeopardize all the truly wonderful benefits of an active sex life by being careless and irresponsible.

“Everyone knows how to have sex, but being romantic and making love is an art that can be learned,” says Dr. Ava Cadell. Loveologist to Hollywood stars, author of 7 books and acclaimed media personality, Dr. Ava is a pioneer in the field of virtual coaching on all aspects of love, relationships, intimacy and sex.

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Sex Drive Radio - The Hot Topic is "Boundaries"

2009-08-31T18:54:00.001-04:00

Three Levels of Communication

2009-08-24T18:06:00.000-04:00

Communication in a relationship is like fuel in a car. If you don't have fuel, you still have a car but it's not going anywhere. If you don't have communication, you still have a relationship but it's not going anywhere. In this article, Three Levels of Communication, author, media therapist, and loveologist Dr. Ava Cadell discusses thre three levels of communication needed for deepening intimacy. Dr. Ava talks openly about all aspects of love and sexuality in her radio show, Sex Drive, which airs four days a week. Visit Loveology University for more information.

Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell Live 4 Nights A Week

2009-08-20T14:25:00.000-04:00

Starting Monday August 17th - Sex Drive Radio with Dr Ava Cadell will air 4 nights per week. Because of popular demand - Dr Ava will be available to take your calls Monday - Thursday at 7 pm PST and 10 pm EST. Renowned soap opera star Jackie Zeman is Dr Ava's co host on Sex Drive Radio.

The HOT Topic this week is Better Sex - you won't want to miss this information.

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The "Hot Topic" for the Week of August 17-20 - Better Sex

These are the celebrity guests for each day

8/17 - Cherie Johnson, Actress
8/18 - Mark Harris, Actor and producer
8/19 - May Wang, Actress of Stage and television
8/20 –Carmen Perez- Televsion and film actress and singer

The "Hot Topic" for the Week of August 14-17 - "Hot Zones"

These are the celebrity guests for each day

8/24 - Jess Walton and husband, John James, Soap Opera Actress and
husband is a grief counselor
8/25 –Tamela D' Amico and Ernie Vecchio, Actors and Producers of Sex Ed TV
8/26 –Tom Schanley, Television and film actor

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Intimacy

2009-08-20T11:13:00.001-04:00

What is intimacy and how can you experience it? In this article, Intimacy, loveologist, author and media therapist Dr. Ava Cadell offers her definition of intimacy.

Dr. Ava talks openly about all aspects of love and sexuality in her radio show, Sex Drive, which airs four days a week. Visit Loveology University for more information.

The Big 'O' In Search of the Ultimate Orgasm

2009-08-20T11:11:00.001-04:00

According to author, media therapist, and renowned loveologist Dr. Ava Cadell, "As humans we are always in search of the ultimate orgasm whether it’s with our soul mate, a one night stand, a bottle of booze, or mind altering drugs. It is our second basic instinct after self-preservation. So why are we seeking that euphoric, mind-blowing, earth shattering, energy melting orgasm?"

Read the rest of the article here, and learn about different kinds of orgasms and different ways to achieve them.

Dr. Ava talks openly about all aspects of love and sexuality in her radio show, Sex Drive, which airs four days a week. Visit Loveology University for more information.

How to Give Your Lover a Massage

2009-08-19T09:53:00.002-04:00

Massage is a great way to relieve tension, improve blood circulation, move energy around the body, and sexually arouse your lover! Massage is also a mutually satisfying way for couples to exhibit intimacy for one another. Author, media therapist and loveologist Dr. Ava Cadell describes massage techniques in How to Give Your Lover a Massage See how many erogenous zones -- or "hot spots" -- can be included in a massage.

Dr. Ava talks openly about all aspects of love and sexuality in her radio show, Sex Drive, which airs four days a week. Visit Loveology University for more information.

Dr. Ava's Q & A: Anal Sex

2009-08-19T09:48:00.002-04:00

Loveologist, author and media therapist Dr. Ava Cadell answers a woman's question about anal sex. Some women consider this an erotic "hot spot," and others are turned off by it.

Dr. Ava talks openly about all aspects of love and sexuality in her radio show, Sex Drive, which airs four days a week. Visit Loveology University for more information.

The Ingredients of Love

2009-08-18T09:41:00.002-04:00

The ingredients of love are like a good soup. Love is made of many ingredients that blend just right. No one single element can serve as the whole meal. In this article, Ingredients of Love, author, media therapist, and loveologist Dr. Ava Cadell discusses the essential ingredients of a loving relationship.

Dr. Ava talks openly about all aspects of love and sexuality in her radio show, Sex Drive, which airs four days a week. Visit Loveology University for more information.

G Spot and Female Ejaculation

2009-08-18T09:36:00.001-04:00

In this article, G Spot and Female Ejaculation, author, media therapist, and loveologist Dr. Ava Cadell talks about female erogenous zones and the various ways a woman can experience an orgasm.

Dr. Ava has been talking about "hot spots" on her radio show, Sex Drive, which airs four days a week. Visit Loveology University for more information.

12 Tips for Better Sex

2009-08-17T13:40:00.000-04:00

Not only is sex fun and exciting - it's healthy. "Sexercise" your body and see the benefits.Are you tired of waiting in line to use the barbells? Is the treadmill tearing up your kneecaps? Does that personal trainer show no mercy - no pain, no gain? Tone muscles, improve your health, and give your body a boost with Dr. Ava Cadell's 12 Sexercise Tips.

Dr. Ava is a renowned loveologist, author and media therapist. She talks openly about all aspects of love and sexuality in her radio show, Sex Drive, which airs four days a week. Visit Loveology University for more information.

Sexual Stages of a Woman

2009-08-17T13:30:00.000-04:00

Whether you are eighteen or eighty eight, being a woman is joyful if you are willing to learn from all the different stages and ages we all experience. In her article Sexual Stages of a Woman, author, media therapist and sexologist Dr. Ava Cadell explores some of the emotional, physical and sexual stages of a woman, ranging from the most impressionable to the most enlightened. She offers practical solutions to help empower women at each stage.

Dr. Ava talks openly about all aspects of love and sexuality in her radio show, Sex Drive, which airs four days a week. Visit Loveology University for more information.

Techniques for Female Oral Sex

2009-08-15T17:52:00.003-04:00

Giving and receiving oral sex can make some people feel inhibited about their own genitals, but when you find someone you love and trust, oral sex will be one of the most intimate and erotic acts within a loving adult relationship.

In this article, author, media therapist and renowned loveologist Dr. Ava Cadell offers some oral sex techniques for that special woman in your life.

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Male Oral Sex Techniques

2009-08-15T17:50:00.001-04:00

It’s a basic male instinct to seek oral gratification. This is one of the ultimate pleasures for any red-blooded man. In this article -- author, media therapist and renowned loveologist Dr. Ava Cadell offers specific tips on orally pleasing a man.

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Infidelity Rules

2009-08-15T11:11:00.001-04:00

USA TODAY reported that approximately 24% of men and 14% of women have had sex outside their marriages. According to media therapist and author Dr. Ava Cadell, monogamy is not a natural human phenomenon -- it is a choice that we make when we want to make a commitment to someone. In this article -- she talks about moving beyond infidelity and healing your wounds. She also offers suggestions for avoiding infidelity. Don't miss Dr. Ava's radio program, Sex Drive. Visit Loveology University for more information.

Talking to Kids About Love and Sex

2009-08-15T11:10:00.001-04:00

According to author, media therapist, and renowned sexologist Dr. Ava Cadell, "we teach children to read and we expect them to read. We teach them about numbers and we expect them to be able to do mathematical equations. So then how can we not teach our kids about human sexuality and still expect them to make sensible love and relationship decisions? Some societies say that sex education will cause more pregnancy, but drivers' education certainly doesn't cause more accidents, does it?"

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Dr. Ava talks openly about all aspects of love and sexuality on her radio program, Sex Drive.

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Sex Drive Radio is Moving to 4 Days a Week Beginning August 17th

2009-08-14T18:08:00.004-04:00

Monday - Thursday 7 pm PST Listen Live at http://www.wetalksex.com or listen to the archives after the show on demand 24 hours a day. Learn much more about Dr Ava Cadell and Loveology University - www.cli.gs/llu

The "Hot Topic" for the Week of August 17-20 - Better Sex

These are the celebrity guests for each day

8/17 - Cherie Johnson, Actress
8/18 - Dr. Leif Rogers, Plastic Surgeon
8/19 - May Wang, Actress of Stage and television
8/20 –Carmen Perez- Televsion and film actress

The "Hot Topic" for the Week of August 14-17 - "Hot Zones"

These are the celebrity guests for each day

8/24 - Jess Walton and husband, John James, Soap Opera Actress and
husband is a grief counselor
8/25 –Tamela D' Amico and Ernie Vecchio, Actors and Producers of Sex Ed TV
8/26 –Tom Schanley, Television and film actor

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Venus Butterfly

2009-08-14T11:51:00.001-04:00

The Venus Butterfly is an ancient Tantric lovemaking technique first practiced in India 3000 years ago. A woman experiences intense ecstasy as two primary erogenous zones are pleasured at the same time. In this article -- https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/VenusButterflyTechnique.aspx -- media therapist, author and renowned loveologist Dr. Ava Cadell describes the technique in detail. Don't miss Dr. Ava's radio program, Sex Drive http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=erm7m-_Zx-4. Visit loveology university for more information -- http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/

Multiple Orgasms for Men

2009-08-14T11:49:00.001-04:00

Achieving multiple orgasms is possible for men. Learn the benefits of a "full body" orgasm with proven ancient Tantric techniques. In this article -- https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/MultipleOrgasmsforMen.aspx -- Media therapist, author and renowned loveologist Dr. Ava Cadell explains this in detail. Don't miss Dr. Ava's radio program, Sex Drive http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=erm7m-_Zx-4. Visit loveology university for more information -- http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/

Dating Tips by Dr. Ava Cadell

2009-08-09T16:27:00.000-04:00

If you’re on the dating scene and want to find someone special, you know how hard it can be to meet and greet the right person. Starting a conversion sounds simple enough, but it can be the most difficult part of a date because you want to make a good first impression. You can't just wait for the man or woman of your desires to talk to you because it may never happen. So you must make the first move whether you are male or female. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Here are some fun opening lines you might want to try.

OPENING LINES

I'm really kind of shy, but I saw you and knew I had to get over myself and meet you.
Excuse me, can you tell me the best way to meet someone like you?
I'm tired of people wanting me for my brain and not my body. Can you help me?
Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend with a Mustang? (name your car) Well, you do now.
Can I buy you breakfast in the morning?
I think I should be committed to an insane asylum 'cause you drive me crazy.
Hi, my name is Chance. Do I have one?
Do you know CPR? I hope so because you're so beautiful I'm having a heart attack.
You smell really good. What scent are you wearing?
I just wanted to come over and introduce myself, because I have the feeling that I'll see you again.
I was looking in the dictionary, and there isn't a word that fully describes your beauty.
Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I have to walk by you again?
Beauty like yours is like a ghost, many have heard about it, but few have actually seen it.
I'm going to Hawaii on vacation next month. How about joining me and making it a honeymoon?
Do you mind if I sit down? When I saw you I went weak in the knees.
You look like someone I should know.
I've lost my phone number, can I borrow yours?
I just had new shocks put on my car. Care to help me test them?
Hi, I'm Mr. Right. Someone said you were looking for me.
If good looks were against the law you'd be arrested, booked, and jailed for life.
Weren't you in the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue?
Didn't I see you on the cover of GQ magazine?
I finally met a girl I can take home to mom. So what are you doing Sunday?
The world is coming to an end. Have dinner with me.
My dog would like to meet your dog, but she's very shy.
I'm doing a poll on where single people like to go. Can you help me?
You look familiar. Did we meet at Club Med last year?
Hi, can we pretend that I used some line that worked really well and move on to the next stage?
You look like the kind of person I would really like to get to know better.
Can I have your autograph? I'm your biggest fan

Remember to say something. Anything is better than nothing! Start by commenting on the other person or the environment, then sustain the conversation by asking questions and close by getting their number.

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Is It Love or Is it Lust - How Do You Know? by Dr Ava Cadell

2009-08-09T11:22:00.000-04:00

Love vs. Lust by Dr. Ava Cadell

Lust is often mistaken for love. In the dictionary you’ll find definitions that include "An intense longing, desire, or need," and “Unrestrained sexual craving.”

Feelings of lust trigger a flood of testosterone, the sex hormone in men and women. It stems from physical attraction and sexual chemistry, a powerful force that can induce strong sexual desire, diverting blood flow to the sexual organs. Research at Maudsley Hospital in London reports that lust causes the brain to produce the same reaction as if on cocaine or speed. “Lust really is like a drug, it leaves you wanting more,” Dr. John Marsden, director of the National Addiction Center, is quoted as saying. But, lust can easily fade when the sex becomes predictable or the person’s character flaws come to the surface.

The dictionary defines love as “A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person.” It also includes: “A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.”

Feelings of love induces a rush of dopamine, a feel-good chemical that increases pleasure and imprints memories. Love also induces oxytocin, a ‘bonding’ substance that helps to build and maintain consistently successful relationships. Physically, the emotional part of the brain is stimulated, making the heart beat faster and causing butterflies in the stomach. A couple who can combine love with lust, the blending of emotional and physical chemistry can experience compatibility and live an enriched life together. But beware because scientific research reveals that the feelings of love may only last between 3 and 7 years, hence the 7 year itch.

For more information about Love and Lust - visit https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/LovevsLust.aspx?a_aid=litekepr

4 Sexual Stages of a Woman...#1: The Impressionable Woman

2009-08-08T21:31:00.001-04:00

Whether you are eighteen or eighty eight, being a woman can be celebratory if you are willing to learn from all the different stages and ages we all inevitably go through. Each transition is a new journey and the destination may not be what you expected, but it can be memorable and magical, especially if you possess a positive attitude.

I thought it would be fun to look at some of the emotional, physical and sexual stages of a woman ranging from the most impressionable to the most enlightened and come up with some practical solutions to help empower her.

There are four categories to make it easy to differentiate, but of course there are women who fit into more than one category. Stay tuned for the other three categories over the next week or so...

#1 The Impressionable Woman may be:

Young
Dating
Newly wed
High energy
Ambitious
New mom
Unable to orgasm
Sexually experimental

Your body should be in its peak and this is the time to start taking good care of it. I have an analogy that I like to use for our body and that is that this is the car we have been given on this planet so we better service it regularly. Whether you have a sleek sports car, a luxury sedan, compact, or a truck, it’s up to you to keep it running. Have regular check-ups, listen to your body, eat healthy, exercise, and enjoy sex and intimacy with someone who is worthy.

What you need to know:

Accept and love your body. There is no such thing as a "normal" size, shape, look, or style. It’s time to overcome any guilt or shame about feelings of sexual desires, dreams, fantasies, and arousal because these feelings and experiences are healthy, natural, and essential for a healthy and happy woman to thrive.

Learn about your own body inside and out. This includes knowing where your clitoris is, getting familiar with your monthly cycle and how secretions change, but most importantly how you respond to different types of sexual stimulation. In fact this applies to your entire body, so take the time to discover all of your erogenous zones because you are covered in “hot spots” from head to toe and there is no way that you can communicate your personal turn-ons to a lover if you haven’t discovered them for yourself.

Find out when and what makes you sexually aroused because the greater your awareness of your body, the more you’ll be able to enjoy it and the better it will work.

In addition, if your future lover has not developed the skill to stimulate you to orgasm, you can show them how to do so or you can simply achieve an orgasm on your own. You won’t need to rely on or expect your lover to fulfill your sexual needs.

Always take responsibility for your own pleasure and orgasm, do not expect your lover to give it to you because sexual arousal begins between the ears and then it flows between the legs. So ladies, get into a juicy state of mind and you can sex yourself up anytime you want.

If you have never experienced an orgasm, you may be suffering from gynecological, hormonal or even neurological disorders, but more commonly you could have a psychological block such as:

Traumatic past sexual experience
Fear of losing control of yourself
Resentment towards your partner
Feeling guilty about sex
Fear of pregnancy
Fear of intimacy
Fear of failure
Fear of rejection
Ignorance about your bodies responses
Lack of stimulation
Low self-esteem and self-worth
Being too inhibited
Poor communication
Unrealistic expectations

Always seek the help of a professional doctor or therapist if you are suffering from any kind of distress or disorder.

That's it for now, see you in a few days with the second sexual stage of a woman #2: The Professional Woman...

For more information on the sexual stages of a woman, check out LU's Pleasing a Woman Short-Term Course and LU's Female Sexuality Short-Term Course.

Live to Love,
Dr. Ava Cadell

For the remainder of the article, https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/SexualStagesofaWoman.aspx

Foreplay is the Topic for Conversation with Dr Ava Cadell at 7 pm PST

2009-08-04T21:33:00.001-04:00

Sex Is Good For Your Health by Dr. Ava Cadell

2009-08-02T19:00:00.004-04:00

“Sex with someone you love is the best prescription for good health. It keeps you young, keeps your sexual organs in good working order, and it boosts your self-confidence. Nothing else stimulates all the senses quite like sex. It just puts a glow on you that no other activity does.” - Dr. Ava Cadell

I believe that regularly occurring and frequent sex will produce certain emotional and physical health benefits. It’s long been established that there are myriad of health benefits related to sexual activity. This awareness has been recorded in our culture for centuries in the form of old wives tales such as “Use it, or lose it.” Just as if you don’t use your common household appliances regularly, they’ll also become rusty and break down.

Some excerpts from the article -

Sex benefits neck and back muscles which increases blood flow to the brain and can alleviate certain types of headache…so, the next time your partner says, “I’ve got a headache, ” you can say, “Good, let’s make love and get rid of it.”

Sexual activity can also help to relieve menstrual cramps by providing a natural decongestion.

No more flu or pesky colds is a good reason to have sex at least once or twice a week.

Sex not only burns calories, but can also help turn fat into muscle more quickly than any other forms of exercise.

The most concise research shows that the act of sexual intercourse burns of about 200 calories, which is equal to running on a treadmill for half an hour.

Sex can help to get those creative juices flowing.

Nothing else stimulates all the senses quite like sex.

These are just a few of the benefits to a regular sex life. To read the full article - https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/SexIsGoodForYourHealth.aspx

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Aphrodisiacs by Dr. Ava Cadell

2009-08-02T18:48:00.004-04:00

Throughout the ages, men and women have eagerly swallowed almost any substance that was called an aphrodisiac, no matter how unappetizing or bizarre. In our never-ending search for better sex, humans have consumed such diverse items as oysters, eels, elephant tusks, lion blood, bull testicles, rhino horn, ram penis, pig genitals, marijuana, and the dried remains of the Mediterranean cantharis beetle, otherwise known as “Spanish Fly.” The sea is a rich source of legendary aphrodisiacs. Oysters, shrimp, clams, anchovies, and eels have been reputed since ancient times to increase sexual desire. Actually, the word Aphrodisiac came from Aphrodite the Greek goddess of love and desire, who herself was a gift from the sea. Many roots, vegetables, and fruits became known as aphrodisiacs simply because their shapes were designed by nature as a clue to their use. And the ancients were always on the look out for such secret signs. So, based on shape alone, they chose to eat asparagus, bananas, carrots, celery, cucumbers, dates, figs, and tomatoes among others in the hope that they would arouse passion and bestow vigor. Eating the genitals of animals noted for their potency, such as bulls and rams, is another historical practice meant to ensure virility. Are these substances of mythology really aphrodisiacs? As it turns out, some of them do work as sex boosters. For example, oysters are a prime source of zinc, one of the essential minerals for men. Semen is rich in zinc, and adequate zinc is needed for sperm production and hormone metabolism. Oysters also release testosterone in women.

To read the full list of aphrodisiacs - visit https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/Aphrodisiacs.aspx

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What's Your Favorite Position? We Talk Sex - Wed 7 pm PST

2009-07-28T22:31:00.006-04:00

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You want to Learn New Positions for Oral Sex, Masturbation, Intercourse and Anal Sex
You want to Add Excitement to Your Relationship with Karma Sutra Positions
You want to Discover the Best Positions for Stimulating the G-spot
You want to Find the Secret Position that will Enable You and Your Lover to Have Simultaneous Orgasms

Welcome to LoveologyUniversity's Sexual Positions Certification Course. Inside you will learn about a variety of different sexual masturbation, oral sex and intercourse positions, how to perform them, the pros and cons of each position and the best time to engage in them. This course includes some sacred Kama Sutra and Tantric positions you may not have seen before, so get ready to expand your sexual horizon. There are helpful techniques for those whose lovemaking requires special positions such as women who are pregnant or people who have physical disabilities or limitations. Spicing up your love life with sexual position games can create new memories and even better experiences. It’s time to learn something that your mother never taught you, so get into position!

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Armageddon Love for the Romantic by Dr Ava Cadell

2009-07-27T14:46:00.000-04:00

What happens when people feel their own mortality? In Dr. Raymond Moody’s book, Life After Death, people described their experience of temporarily dying and then being brought back to life. Almost everyone who had a near death experience reported being asked two questions during the time of their death. Regardless of culture or religious beliefs, the two questions were the same: “What did you learn about being able to love?” and “How well did you use your gifts to live your unique life purpose?”

Most of us don’t get the opportunity to ponder these questions at the brink of life and death, never mind the prospect of coming back to life to change our responses should we be disappointed by them. This being the case, it is only extreme, life-altering events that tend to compel us to assume such contemplative poses, and no one would argue that the prospect of Armageddon is an example of such a life-altering event. However, what is new for many is the perceived proximity of Armageddon. What was only recently considered alarmist fodder for hypochondriacs is now a realistic prospect for many. And as such, it is causing many to “check in” with themselves in order to re-examine their lives in ways previously not contemplated and consequently to realign their priorities.

In some instances, this will lead people to be more introverted; the perceived greater risk and threat leading these people to want to close off and protect themselves from the prospect of further harm. In other instances, this will lead people to be bolder, more daring and to take greater risks with the thought that “the end of the world” is approaching anyway so, why not?

Both of these paths have their benefits and drawbacks. If you become more introverted, there may be less chance of getting hurt, but you also fail to live life to its fullest. On the other hand, if you are bolder and more daring, you may also be inviting unnecessary risks, which may lead to their own dire circumstances. However, there is a middle of the road. Sincere self-examination can lead to self-forgiveness, the forgiveness of others, and the ability to lead a less judgmental life.

Being bold might include having the courage to find love, to learn how to deepen a relationship, or to live out your dreams. Once people check in with their priorities, they tend to agree that love and human connections are the things that matter most in life. This recognition motivates people to communicate more openly, intimately and honestly. They are more aware of time and its imminent end and are hypersensitive of being left in the position of saying, “If only…”, “I wish I had…”, or “What if…”. Uncertainty about the world and the longevity of one’s life causes people to take action. Single people take greater risks because they don’t want to be alone, and couples reconnect, forming closer bonds. In other words, people seek solace and refuge in the power of love.

Love is the fuel that keeps the world going round. It empowers our planet. In exploring everlasting love, we are seeking to express more of ourselves and experience more of life in tandem with the right partner. If an individual can achieve a wholesome self-love, then two people uniting in love can become a powerhouse. Every trial and tribulation they go through together can be viewed as an avenue to know, feel, and express more love. Love has a high value because it is an investment. It causes us to experience life on every level, and that is the ultimate gift of our existence. We quest for love because of its enduring quality and its ability to grow if nourished. Love is a precious gift that we earn and as such is all the more dear to us. To be able to receive and give more of love is to experience life in glorious Technicolor. To learn more about the power of love, do read my book, 12 Steps to Everlasting Love, or go to my virtual seminars.

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The Big 'O' In Search of the Ultimate Orgasm by Dr. Ava Cadell (Part 2)

2009-07-25T17:16:00.001-04:00

Wednesday night on Sex Drive with Dr Ava (www.wetalksex.com, her listeners learned all kinds of interesting and stimulating information about Orgasms. I encourage you to listen to the archvive at www.wetalksex.com and click on "Listen Now". In addition - I'm posting a 2 part series of articles about orgasms - unigasm, bigasm, trigasm for him and her and blended orgasms. Are you ready to learn more? For part one - visit http://worldsbestlover.blogspot.com/2009/07/big-o-in-search-of-ultimate-orgasm-by.html

The Big 'O' In Search of the Ultimate Orgasm by Dr. Ava Cadell (Part 2)

The TriGasm for Her

So, here’s the revolution, the ultimate orgasm—TriGasm. A female TriGasm is the result of arousing 3 points of pleasure, the clitoris, G-spot, and anus simultaneously. Here are some tips for you and your partner as you go off on your TriGasm exploration.

Step 1:		The woman should lie back while her partner lavishes her clitoris with oral pleasure until she has reached a level 8 on a pleasure scale of 1 to 10.
Step 2:		Change course and stimulate her vulva (outside of the vagina) in small circles with your tongue for 2 minutes.
Step 3:		Return to the clitoris and orally increase her level of pleasure to a 9, almost to the point of no return.
Step 4:		At this peak, insert your forefinger palm up into her vagina and find her G-spot, then tap, tap, tap it gently towards her navel.
Step 5:		Simultaneously with step four, stimulate her anus gently with a feather, a pinky or a vibrator to bring her to a momentous, energy-draining TriGasm!

The TriGasm for Him

The TriGasm for Men is also the result of stimulating 3 points of pleasure, the penis, the testicles and the anus simultaneously.

Step 1:		The man should lie back while his partner lavishes the head of his penis with some good oral suction until he reaches a level 8 on a pleasure scale of 1 to 10.
Step 2:		Then use your mouth and tongue to stimulate his testicles for 2 minutes while you masturbate his penis with your hand.
Step 3:		Return to the penis orally and increase his level of pleasure to a 9, almost to the point of no return.
Step 4:		At this peak, fondle his testicles as you continue to orally delight his penis and insert your forefinger palm up into his anus to find his prostate gland, then tap, tap, tap it gently.
Step 5:		If all goes well, he’ll have an unforgettable, enormous TriGasm!

Blended Orgasm

A blended orgasm is much like the BiGasm with a little twist. The intention for the blended orgasm is to make it last much longer by teasing your lover and stimulating one primary erogenous zone, then teasing another, then going back to the first and so on. Start by choosing your favorite orgasm technique (such as oral stimulation on the clitoris for a woman and oral stimulation on the penis for a guy). Get aroused to a level 6 on your pleasure scale, and then switch to another orgasm technique you enjoy (such as G-spot for a woman and prostate for a guy) and get aroused to a level 7 this time. Switch back to the first technique, raise your arousal level to 8 and then back to the second technique at least three times before reaching a level 10 on your orgasm scale.

This orgasm technique is a wonderful way to monitor your pleasure scale and is most beneficial for men who suffer from premature ejaculation. Whenever they feel like they are about to reach their orgasm, they move their attention to another erogenous zone to distract the point of no return action.

Mind over Body Orgasm

Since the brain is the most erotic organ in the body, it should be no surprise that you can think your way to orgasm. Sexual thoughts can activate the brain just like sexual touching does. If you’ve ever enjoyed looking at porn, you’ll know what I’m talking about. Visuals of people having sex can automatically trigger your body into a state of arousal, making women wet and giving men erections. If you continued to watch erotica without touching yourself, you could still experience a full-blown orgasm. Even if you’re not into porn, you can achieve a mind over body orgasm by tapping into all of your five senses. To begin, wet your genitals with your own saliva or some lubricant, and then using only your imagination, think about what your lover’s tongue would feel like between your legs; what he or she smells like when fully aroused; visualize what they look like naked; imagine touching, kissing, licking and tasting his or her body. Hear them moaning with pleasure. Become aware of your own feelings as you let your excitement build. The trick here is not to touch yourself, but to let the ebb and flow of your orgasm take you on a mental journey to sexual ecstasy. This can also be fun to do with a partner as a safe sex activity.

Orgasm enables us to surrender complete control
Orgasm is the best form of escape from reality
Orgasm is the most natural high
Orgasm is wired to our brain, not between our legs
Orgasm gives us indisputable confidence
Orgasm teaches us to accept who we are
Orgasm satisfies us physically
Orgasm satisfies us emotionally
Orgasm can be a spiritual experience
Orgasm is addictive
Orgasm cannot be hurried or pushed by anyone
Orgasm can unite two lovers into one

If you have never experienced an orgasm you may be suffering from gynecological, hormonal, or even neurological disorders, but more commonly you could have a psychological block such as:

Traumatic past sexual experience
Fear of losing control of yourself
Resentment towards your partner
Feeling guilty about sex
Fear of pregnancy
Fear of intimacy
Fear of failure
Fear of rejection
Ignorance about your bodies responses
Lack of stimulation
Low self-esteem and self-worth
Being too inhibited
Poor communication
Unrealistic expectations

(Learn more about the orgasm class from Loveology University and you study from the privacy of your own home.)

The Big 'O' In Search of the Ultimate Orgasm by Dr. Ava Cadell (Part 1)

2009-07-24T17:07:00.006-04:00

The Big 'O' In Search of the Ultimate Orgasm by Dr. Ava Cadell (Part 1)

As humans we are always in search of the ultimate orgasm whether it’s with our soul mate, a one night stand, a bottle of booze, or mind altering drugs. It is our second basic instinct after self-preservation. So why are we seeking that euphoric, mind-blowing, earth shattering, energy melting orgasm? We seek to lose that part of ourselves which connects to the everyday and mundane, and for a brief moment of eternity reach out and feel the all-embracing Karma, the essence of the universe, making, for that one brief moment, our tiny insignificant essence part of a much greater supreme whole. Perhaps therefore, the "ultimate orgasm" is our shorthand for losing the pain and hassle of being human, and seeking to transcend the fleshly prison for one brief instant in which we can float ethereally like gods.

Choose Your Orgasm

There are many different kinds of orgasm that you can experience from stimulation of different parts of your body. Each one will create different kinds of feelings ranging from quick, short, localized, deep, concentrated, to full body orgasms. This is your opportunity to experiment with as many different kinds of orgasm as you can. Remember that orgasm is good for your health so it’s doctors’ orders!

A UniGasm

This is an orgasm where stimulation is directed to one primary erogenous zone such as the penis, prostate, testicles, clitoris, G-spot, anus, or nipples. Nipple stimulation for men and women can produce an orgasm, though it’s not as common as some of the other erogenous zones. For women, having their breasts caressed and nipples sucked releases Oxytocin, the chemical that makes them feel like they are in love. Masters and Johnson discovered that one percent of women were able to achieve orgasm from breast stimulation alone. This is an area that many men enjoy stimulating during foreplay, but rarely think of as having orgasmic potential. To give memorable oral sex on her breasts and nipples you need to understand that the size of her breasts have nothing to do with the sensitivity. Ask her if she gets turned on by having her breasts played with. If so, then follow these directions. Begin by caressing and licking both of her breasts, not just her nipples. Alternate each one as you use the flat of your tongue in lapping motions all around her breasts covering every centimeter. Follow your tongue with light fingertip caresses, leaving her nipples until last. When both breasts are suitably wet from your tongue, cup your hand over one breast at a time so that the tip of her nipple rests in between your thumb and your index finger. Squeeze the fingers together so that you raise her nipple slightly, and then begin licking it with the tip of your tongue in circular motions. After about a dozen licks or so, pucker your lips around the nipple and suck gently but firmly; let your head bob up and down simultaneously. To enhance oral nipple sensation, put an ice cube in your mouth while lavishing her orally. Don’t forget to give equal attention to both breasts and nipples. When she is climaxing do not stop or change what you are doing. Let her push you away when she is ready.

For male nipple stimulation, the directions are pretty much the same, except men are more interested in having immediate nipple contact with deeper vacuum sucking motions from the woman- not so much teasing around the nipple area. Some men enjoy having their nipples nibbled on. So ladies, it’s up to you to find out how much pain or pleasure your man wants on his nipples. Some men have one nipple that is more sensitive than the other. While you suck on one, you can pinch the other one and then ask him which one feels most erotic. You could be the first one to introduce him to a UniGasm through his nipples. Now that’s what I call creating a lasting mammary, (I mean memory)!

A BiGasm

Many people are experienced with various forms of dual stimulation—a penis and a tongue, a vagina and a tongue a finger and a tongue, and various other combinations. Here are some ideal ways to create two points of stimulation at the same time.

This will be more intense than a UniGasm so it’s worth exploring. It can be licking his testicles while masturbating his penis, sucking on her clitoris while penetrating her anus with a finger (preferably covered with a finger cot), sucking his penis while massaging the testicles, licking her perineum while fingering her vagina, and lets not forget good old fashioned penetration too. Have fun experimenting with different combinations on your lover’s body. Ask for feedback so that you know which combinations are most exciting for you both.

(Part Two will discuss trigasm and blended orgasm details. Learn more about the orgasm class from Loveology University and you study from the privacy of your own home.)

Multiple Orgasms and Prolonged Sex for Men by Dr. Ava Cadell

2009-07-24T16:52:00.004-04:00

Achieving multiple orgasms that awaken and expand consciousness is within the power of all men. Learn the benefits of a "full body" orgasm with proven ancient Tantric techniques. The benefits of multiple orgasms include increased circulation, enriched mental clarity, prolonged sexual pleasure, and the ability to separate orgasm from ejaculation.

Prolonging Your Orgasm With A Partner The P.C. muscle is the support muscle for the genitals in both men and women. There is a definite correlation between good tone in the P.C. muscle and orgasmic intensity and control. A quick way to identify the P.C. muscle is to urinate, then stop the flow of urine by squeezing your P.C. muscle, then urinate again. After a few repetitions, most people are able to tighten this muscle without the involvement of urination. This technique requires the control of your PC muscle. You also need to learn to enhance your ability to peak at various arousal levels.

This exercise begins with the man lying on his back. Ask your partner to begin a genital caress with hands and/or mouth. Do a series of low-level peaks – from level (1) to (6). Give your partner lots of feedback so she knows when to back off and when to intensify her caresses. Once you have completed these peaks, switch positions.
Your partner should now be lying on her back with her legs in the air, slightly bent. You want to be on your knees, with most of your weight being supported by your legs. Do a series of peaks while having intercourse with your partner, start with some slow, comfortable penetration. Taking plenty of time, peak up to level (5), then back off by squeezing your PC muscles. Next peak to level (6), and then back off. Peak to level (7), then back off. Next peak up to level (8), and then back off. Now peak up to level (9), then back off. Now try the same thing with a series of fast, vigorous thrusting. The moment you stop thrusting, your partner must stop moving too.
Finally, thrust almost all the way up to your point of no return at level (9.5). But this time, the moment you reach that point, both you and your partner should stop moving. Squeeze your PC muscle as hard as you can, (remember that the higher your arousal level, the harder you have to squeeze your PC muscle), take deep breaths, open your eyes, focus all your attention on your genitals, and try to feel the semen moving from your testicles, to the base of your penis. (Any extra motion right now could cause you to ejaculate before you want to). If you stopped thrusting in time, you will have experienced an orgasm without ejaculation. Congratulations!
Now back off and rest a little bit by starting some really slow, easy penetration to maintain your erection. Let your arousal level rise again, but this time don’t try to stop it. Pass level (8), (9), keep thrusting and go all the way. Let yourself have a full orgasm complete with ejaculation.

Once you master this technique, you can prolong your orgasm for as long as you like and you can control when you have an orgasm and when you ejaculate. This technique takes lots of practice and self control.

My advice:

If at first you don’t succeed, keep on trying.

Solo Exercises

Lie down on your back and get comfortable or sit in a chair. Using plenty of lubrication, begin stroking your penis and experiencing your arousal. Your arousal level will vary from level (1) which is barely aroused at to level (10) which is when you orgasm and ejaculate. It is important to become adept with each level of excitement.
For example when you reach level (4), use your PC muscle by squeezing it, then concentrate on letting your arousal level drop by two levels. Now resume stimulation and peak at level (6), and then let your arousal level drop again. Take plenty of time. Each peak should take at least 3 minutes. Resume your stroking and peak at level (8). Once again, allow your arousal level to drop off two levels. This time peak at level (9), then slam on your P.C. muscle, breathing deeply as you let your arousal drop down once more.
Intensify your stimulation and let your arousal rise to (9.5) which is almost to the point of no return. Now tighten the PC muscle for about 10 seconds, but don’t stop stroking. Open your eyes and focus all of your attention on your genitals. Breathe deeply and regularly as your body begins to go into orgasm. You should be able to feel the semen collecting at the base of your penis. You should also feel the PC muscle begin to spasm, but you should not ejaculate.
Take a deep breath, slow down the stimulation and let your arousal dip back down to level (8) or even (7). Once you’ve rested for a moment, intensify your stimulation once more and let your arousal level rise. But, this time you don’t want to get in its way. You don’t want to squeeze your PC muscle. Just let yourself have a full orgasm, complete with ejaculation. And that is a “multiple orgasm.”

The first few times you try an exercise like this, you may experience any number of unusual sensations, such as a partial orgasm or a “skipped” orgasm. These things may not feel very normal but they are and there is no reason to be concerned. Your body is learning something new!

For more information about the Tantric Education and more details about Orgasm Education at Loveology University.

Discuss Climax With Dr Ava at 7 pm PST on Sex Drive

2009-07-21T17:42:00.003-04:00

To learn more about Orgasm - listen to this week's show and take a look at the video below -

Learn to Reach an Orgasm - For Her and Him

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This Course Is For You If:
•You want to Learn About the Different Female Orgasms and How to Achieve Them
•You want to Learn About the Different Male Orgasms and How to Achieve Them
•You want to Avoid Orgasm Obstacles
•You want to Find Out About Orgasm Enhancers and How They Work

Welcome to LoveologyUniversity's Orgasm Certification Course. Inside you will see interesting research, myths and fun facts, as well as the best ways to get the orgasm you deserve. By taking this course you will learn how incorporating all five senses can heighten your orgasm experience and how you have the ability to choose just what kind of orgasm you would like to have. You'll understand how to overcome orgasm barriers, find out where to locate the illusive G-spot and how to stimulate it to orgasm, discover the Blended orgasm, the TriGasm and even the Hands Free orgasm for men and women. All responses are different in reference to the orgasm, but this course is sure to have you screaming yes yes yes!

Course Highlights
•Orgasms and Women
•Orgasms and Men
•Orgasm Obstacles
•Select Your Orgasm from a UniGasm
•BiGasm
•TriGasm
•Blended Orgasm
•Mind Over Body Orgasm
•Separating Orgasm from Ejaculation
•Orgasms and your Health
•Print out your own personalized certification after passing the quiz
•Place your e-trophy on your website to prove you are certified

Before this course, I couldnt even tell if my partner had orgasms or not. Then I read the incredible wealth of advice and information in this course. Now, not only can I tell when she has an orgasm, I give her more than one! But the benefits dont stop there; Ive increased the enjoyment from my own orgasms as well! -- Vijay

Dating Tips for the Romantic In You by Dr Ava Cadell

2009-07-19T16:59:00.002-04:00

I'm really kind of shy, but I saw you and knew I had to get over myself and meet you.
Excuse me, can you tell me the best way to meet someone like you?
I'm tired of people wanting me for my brain and not my body. Can you help me?
Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend with a Mustang? (name your car) Well, you do now.
Can I buy you breakfast in the morning?
I think I should be committed to an insane asylum 'cause you drive me crazy.
Hi, my name is Chance. Do I have one?
Do you know CPR? I hope so because you're so beautiful I'm having a heart attack.
You smell really good. What scent are you wearing?
I just wanted to come over and introduce myself, because I have the feeling that I'll see you again.
I was looking in the dictionary, and there isn't a word that fully describes your beauty.
Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I have to walk by you again?
Beauty like yours is like a ghost, many have heard about it, but few have actually seen it.
I'm going to Hawaii on vacation next month. How about joining me and making it a honeymoon?
Do you mind if I sit down? When I saw you I went weak in the knees.
You look like someone I should know.
I've lost my phone number, can I borrow yours?
I just had new shocks put on my car. Care to help me test them?
Hi, I'm Mr. Right. Someone said you were looking for me.
If good looks were against the law you'd be arrested, booked, and jailed for life.
Weren't you in the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue?
Didn't I see you on the cover of GQ magazine?
I finally met a girl I can take home to mom. So what are you doing Sunday?
The world is coming to an end. Have dinner with me.
My dog would like to meet your dog, but she's very shy.
I'm doing a poll on where single people like to go. Can you help me?
You look familiar. Did we meet at Club Med last year?
Hi, can we pretend that I used some line that worked really well and move on to the next stage?
You look like the kind of person I would really like to get to know better.
Can I have your autograph? I'm your biggest fan

FIRST DATE CAUTION

Caution is essential on a first date, especially if you got your date through the personals. It's a good idea to take your own car - you can leave whenever you want and stay only as long as you want.A lot of date rapes are induced by drugs and alcohol, so the obvious steps to take are to be very careful not to drink too much or accept any kind of pills from anyone accept your doctor.

If you have had a previous abusive relationship, do not confide in a new date. By letting them know that you allowed someone to abuse you, you are in essence telling them that they can do the same thing and they won't respect you as much. Trust is something that has to be earned so don't trust everyone you come in contact with because they might just use your weaknesses against you.

A MEMORABLE KISS

Build anticipation by kissing all around your lover's face.
Trace the outline of your lover's lips with the tip of your tongue.
Begin your kiss slowly and gently with emotion and sensitivity.
Kiss without using your tongue, slightly open mouthed, with sweet breath.
Take your lover's bottom lip between the two of yours and suck gently.
While kissing, lick you lover's teeth with your tongue.
To increase sexual excitement, make your kiss wet.
Wrap you're your lips around your lover's tongue and suck passionately.
Follow your lover's kissing techniques and emulate them.
Use hot or cold liquids to create erotic sensations.

THE BEST WAY TO SET THE MOOD FOR LOVE - Stimulate all five senses:

Hearing - music and love-talk before, during, and after.
Smell - flowers, incense, and favorite perfume or cologne.
Sight - pretend someone special is going to be staying in your bedroom, add ornaments and candles, (a candle can turn a plain room into a romantic one).
Touch - oils, lotions, powder, satin sheets, and lingerie.
Taste - order in a gourmet dinner or buy favorite snacks and drinks (never make love on an empty stomach)

NO DISTRACTIONS DURING LOVEMAKING

Don’t answer the phone or pager.
If you have children, tell them mom and dad need to have their private play time.
Turn the TV off.

WOMEN NEED TO BE PREPARED FOR LOVE

Men should learn to undress a woman slowly and appreciate every part of her skin before making love to her. Every man should be able to remove a woman’s bra with one hand in the dark.
Bubble baths are so romantic if only men would try them.
Phone calls during the day to prepare your lover for the evening’s events are very effective.
Bring home little trinkets for no special reason. A single flower or some chocolates will let her know that you were thinking about her.

SLOWER IS BETTER

Every man should learn to give his lover a sensual massage.
Take time to discover her erogenous zones from her toes to the top of her head and ask her to rate your caresses and kisses from 1 to 10.
Use ice, whipped cream, or strawberry jam for foreplay.
Build sexual anticipation and always wait to have your orgasm last.

LET YOUR LOVER KNOW HE/SHE’S MAKING A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE

Make them breakfast in bed.
Write love letters.
Ask for his/her wish list.
Give lots of compliments.
Go on romantic walks.
Surprise him/her with a picnic.
Always kiss goodbye and give a big welcome home.
Kiss at unexpected times in unexpected places.
Tell him/her what you love about them the most.
Phone in the middle of the day just because.
Take him/her on a fantasy date once a week.
Record a message of love and leave it where it can be found.

SEX TIPS

Always urinate after sex to prevent infections.
Don’t say “I love you” during sex unless you mean it.
To intensify your orgasms, change your regular sex position.
Gargle with mouthwash before oral sex. It provides a tingling sensation for your lover.
Never compare penis or breast size with your lover. It reminds them that you’re thinking of another lover.
Discuss sexual fears as well as pleasures with your lover.
Use a lubricant before you need it, to prevent soreness.
Arouse your lover by licking their eyelids.
Always use water-based lubricants. (Oil or petroleum-based ones can destroy latex)
Try latex gloves for finger penetration, especially if you have cuts or abrasions. (gloves will offer a new form of stimulation)
Don’t forget to put a condom on a sex toy that will be used by more than one person.
Change condoms when going from the anus to the vagina.
Don’t leave a hickey high on your lover’s neck, or some other noticeable place, unless they ask you to.
Don’t place anything used for anal play into a woman’s vagina before cleaning it thoroughly, including your finger.
Never discuss past lovers with your current partner, unless they ask you to.
Never let someone tie you up unless you know them well and trust them.
Never criticize your lover’s mother.
Never leave the wet spot on your lover’s side.
Don’t take it personally if your lover doesn’t climax every time.
Never talk about your daily problems during love-making.
Don’t send flowers and think everything is OK without communicating with your lover.
Never seal your mouth over a woman’s vagina and blow air into it when she’s pregnant. It could cause an air embolism and be fatal.
Don’t argue, insult or criticize your lover in front of friends, family, or in public.
Be careful about placing food inside a woman’s vagina, especially sugary foods. They can cause infections.
Don’t use nylon stockings to tie up your lover because they are difficult to untie.
Keep your eyes open during love-making and watch your lovers face for a different sensation.
Never argue with your lover before you go to sleep.
Don’t forget to cuddle after sex.
Lack of sexual desire is mainly caused by stress and overworking.
Don’t forget to return your lover’s phone calls without delay; it shows you care

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You want to Know How and Where to Meet a Romantic Partner

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You want Deeper and More Intense Feelings of Romance and Pure Pleasure with Your Lover

The Certified Romantic course is for anyone who wants to find and keep love, learn how to be a better communicator, enjoy unique dates and create romantic and lasting memories in and out of the bedroom. This course includes The 12 Steps to Everlasting Love e-Book, Between the Sheets Audio Program, 7 Short Term courses including, Communication, Love, Flirting, Dating, Kissing, Foreplay, Intimacy plus 3 full length Videos on The Fine Art of Setting the Mood, Tantric Massage and Kama Sutra Sexual Positions.

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Ingredients of Love by Dr. Ava Cadell

2009-07-18T18:57:00.003-04:00

The ingredients of love are like a good soup. Love is made of many ingredients that blend just right. No one single element can serve as the whole meal. And it's hard to find a good soup recipe, isn't it? It needs special spices and maybe an unusual ingredient or two, like lotus root or exotic mushrooms. Even everyday potato soup has carrots, onions, garlic, salt; just the right seasonings.

Let's look at the ingredients in our love-potion soup. If you went to a sorcerer to help you find love, you would ask the magician to cook up the following:

Friendship

If you cannot rely on the person you love, then that person is not worthy of your love. And if your partner cannot count on you, you are not in an everlasting love relationship. Friendship means being able to say anything to your partner because you have that ease of "best buddies." Best friends never take advantage of each other; they are there to help one another. Any good partnership includes the same love you have for a best friend.

Trust

I am fond of an old - and trusted - axiom that goes like this: "People who cannot trust should not be trusted." Distrusting people are often deceitful. I have found this to be a reliable measuring stick on the trust issue. But my rule-of-thumb is to give people the benefit of the doubt unless they prove otherwise. You cannot truly be connected to someone you cannot trust. That warm, mellow feeling we experience when we trust each other is a large part of true love. Peace-of-mind in a relationship is vital to its stamina. And trust, like anything worthwhile, is something we earn over time, gradually.

Respect

First and foremost, you must respect yourself before someone else will respect you. When it comes to love, if you respect your partner just the way he or she is when you first meet without wanting them to change, then that's a good sign that love can prevail. Whether respect can grow and blossom will determine the depth of your love. Respect can diminish over time, especially when you or your partner say or do hurtful things to each other. Whether it is verbal, emotional, or physical abuse, it will kill any respect and lack of respect is one of the most common reasons for ending a relationship.

Passion

Yes, that all-consuming feeling of pure lust, euphoric, overwhelming, distracting, beautiful thing we call passion can be spontaneous or it can come on gradually too. Passion either grows or it dissipates. Passion grows when you can be comfortable and uninhibited with each other. And you break down any barriers by communicating. Passion fades when you have resentment, anger, or contempt for your partner. Once again, here is an area that cannot be neglected or taken for granted in a relationship. Keep it alive by kissing everyday to keep the juices flowing, recreating passionate memories and trying new and exciting activities together.

Communication

You cannot feel safe in a relationship without communication. You have to know where you stand, and you owe it to your partner to tell him or her the same. Knowing each other is the prerequisite to happiness in all areas. Communication is like that magic spice that brings out the flavor of all the other ingredients. Hey, that includes sex! Let your partner know it is safe to talk about fantasies and to explore them. Good communication can unleash strong creative energy between you and your partner. And with good communication, you can let your hair down and talk about anything. Not only does it enhance your partnership, it takes a big chunk out of everyday stress. Compliment your partner every single day; let him or her know that they are making a difference to your life and share your wants, needs, desires, and fears because nobody can read your mind, not even the one you love!

For a 30-Day Plan of Action Workbook designed to help you...Attract potential soul mates, Conquer your fears of rejection, Enhance your self-worth, Break down the walls to finding everlasting love, Taking control of your own needs by focusing on your inner power and Finding everlasting love, buy the 12 Steps to Everlasting Love Book and Journal for $9.95

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The Art of Kissing is the Topic of Discussion at WeTalkSex.com - Wed 7 pm PST

2009-07-14T18:08:00.000-04:00

Be A True Romantic - A Lesson in Intimacy by Dr Ava Cadell

2009-07-14T16:47:00.000-04:00

A Lesson in Intimacy by Dr. Ava Cadell

What is intimacy and how can I experience it? This is a universal question that I am asked so often that I’d like to give you my definition of intimacy.

“Let’s start by breaking down the word intimacy and look at it phonetically. Into sounds very inviting doesn’t it? When you get into something, it means you really want to be there, right? What about Me See? You’re saying,“This is ME. See me, all of me because I have nothing to hide.” It’s like having a long zipper from your head to your toes, opening it and saying, “here I am.” Intimacy is about getting rid of protective layers and facades and revealing yourself to someone you truly love.

Intimacy is not a wild, rapid passion, but a slow burning passion.
Intimacy doesn’t have to be serious; it can be fun like a Monopoly game. Your goal in Monopoly is to own expensive hotels on Park Place, but you can’t do that until you have purchased some less expensive properties on Baltic Ave. It’s the same with intimacy. Your goal is to connect with someone mentally, emotionally, and sexually, but you have to work your way up to it by taking your time, getting to know your partner, exploring non-sexual areas, and work up to primary erogenous zones.
For intimacy you need to be 100% present and enjoy the journey as much as the destination.
When a woman feels intimate with her man, she feels safe and she will surrender herself to him so she can feel ultimate pleasure and satisfaction without any inhibitions.
For a man intimacy can be better than sex because it takes the pressure off performance and it makes him feel valued by his partner

As a visual aid to demonstrate the five keys to intimacy, I ask my clients to hold up their prominent hand as we go through each finger to define the five steps to Intimacy:

Thumb – When we raise our thumb, what does it symbolize? Everything is OK. Your thumb represents your ego. In order to experience intimacy you need to surrender your ego. Intimacy is not about conquest, but a personal journey with someone you love. So step one is to surrender your ego, let your partner see who you really are, even when you’re feeling vulnerable.
Forefinger – When you wag your forefinger at someone or when they wag it at you, what does that represent? This is the finger of authority and knowledge. But what about when you were a child and you pointed your forefinger, what did it represent then? The forefinger is also the finger that was used in the movies ET and Cocoon to touch the extraterrestrials inquisitively. So the second step towards intimacy is to always be curious and willing to learn about your partner’s wants, needs, desires, and fears.
Middle finger – What do you think this finger represents? It’s called the “swear finger” and it means “up yours” in slang terms. It’s a sign of defiance! Yet it’s a sign to express how you feel. In relationships men often repress their feelings, especially successful powerful men who learn that success comes from not expressing feelings because that shows weakness. But you cannot experience intimacy without letting down your defenses and opening up your heart. Soften your swear finger and you’ll experience the third step towards intimacy. That is to open up your heart, verbalize, and demonstrate your emotions to your partner because they cannot read your mind.
Ring finger – This is the finger that people use to display their wedding ring on. It’s also the finger of hope and trust. You wouldn’t dream of marrying someone you didn’t trust. The forth step to achieving intimacy is for you to earn your partner’s trust and respect by being non-judgmental and unconditionally supportive and loving. A prelude to this is to trust and respect you because if you don’t, then you can’t expect your partner to either.
Pinky – What do you think of when you wave your pinky finger? As children we interlock pinkies when we want to keep a promise, so let’s apply this finger to the fifth step to intimacy as the promise of a deeper connection through open and honest communication. Make time for quality communication with your partner every single day where you both take turns talking, listening and acknowledging each other.

Remember the five steps to Intimacy and think of intimacy like an artichoke. You have to peel off the layers and savor them before you can devour the succulent tender heart.

Passion Power is a personal fulfillment and sensual enrichment program for couples. It is guaranteed to improve your communication, enhance your intimacy and expand your sexual horizon.

If your relationship needs more romance and sex, don’t look outside the relationship. Passion Power can turn the often serious subject of sex into adult play!

Included in the Passion Power program are 6 audio cassettes/CD’s recorded personally by Dr. Ava, a never before published 100 page workbook and a copy of the best selling book, The Stock Market Orgasm. (www.loveologyuniversity.com/LUPages/Intimacy.aspx)

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This Course Is For You If:

You want to Know How and Where to Meet a Romantic Partner

You want to Learn Great Tips on How to Be More Romantic

You want to Boost Your Desirability and Experience More Love with Romance and Intimacy

You want Deeper and More Intense Feelings of Romance and Pure Pleasure with Your Lover

Become a Certified Romantic - Dr. Ava's 10 Powerful Principles For A Lasting Relationship

2009-07-09T20:45:00.003-04:00

10 Powerful Principles For a Lasting Relationship

1. Communication
Communicate your needs positively & politely.

2. Courage
Forgive mistakes; have the courage to say “I’m sorry” first.

3. Contentment
Share your contentment and gratitude for what you have together.

4. Consideration
Always be kind and considerate of your partner’s feelings.

5. Collaboration
Collaborate together to form a stronger bond and create lasting memories.

6. Curiosity
Show curiosity in your partner’s daily life, goals, and dreams.

7. Compliments
Compliments are the bedrock of romance so give them daily.

8. Commitment
Build trust by reviewing and renewing your commitment together

9. Contribution
Find as many ways as you can to contribute to each other's lives.

10. Celebration
Celebrate your love and life by laughing every day.

More Details -
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This Course Is For You If:

You want to Know How and Where to Meet a Romantic Partner

You want to Learn Great Tips on How to Be More Romantic

You want to Boost Your Desirability and Experience More Love with Romance and Intimacy

You want Deeper and More Intense Feelings of Romance and Pure Pleasure with Your Lover